How often does your dh annoy you or how often do you argue

[Lardlizard]

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Often daily.
Sometimes.

He annoys me with something or another most days to be honest, and I him. You know, just small things that frustrate you for a few seconds, usually to donwith housework or snoring or something stupid like that.

We bicker a bit but we never actually argue x

Daily.
Once every two to three years.

He annoys me a lot but we rarely argue, I’m sure I’m just as annoying but we cut each other a lot of slack. Nobody’s perfect.

Frequently
Rarely

One can frequently be annoyed by something that is not actually be unreasonable by the other party.

We (usually!) pick and choose our battles.

It’s happening right now. Probably the first time in a month?

My husband and I have never had a row or argued. We've disagreed, but have always talked it through. We have never once shouted at each other. As for annoying me, never. I love him to bits. Any foibles are simple amusing to me.

He annoys me a few times a week, and I'm sure I annoy him just as much. We don't argue though & we've never had what you might call a proper row.

Oh, annoy me... I couldn’t say. I don’t keep tabs because I’m well aware that I’m the more annoying one in the relationship.

But tonight’s he’s BU. So I’m planning on being petty for around 24hrs. If I can be bothered in the morning.

He annoys me most days, but we rarely argue. We discuss our issues, and sometimes that can get a little bit heated but it never escalates into shouting or name calling

Good grief Aquamarine you are definitely an outlier from the norm!

he annoys me about as often as i do him - most days

as for real arguments, maybe 3 or 4 in 13 years

Even when we do argue, they tend to be fairly pointless. The big stuff we sort out. The little stuff we sometimes get into petty bickering if other factors align

He annoys me most days tbh but just over little silly things. I’m sure I’m equally as annoying
We bicker a lot. Mostly lighthearted.
Real arguments.. rarely.

Annoy/ irritate? Every day.
Argue? Rarely, used to be once a month when I was due a period but that's stopped now so more ad hoc.

Can I ask why you are asking though OP, because if you are worried about red flags or gaslighting, loads of responses (like mine) that may unintentionally minimise or deflect may not be what is needed

Annoy me: most days, some days multiple times, other days not as all (but the latter is unusual)

Argue: once a week maybe more (big arguments every couple of years when both stressed)

He's a walking talking irritation at the moment. But I am 30 weeks pregnant and miserable so I've had to stop and check if he's actually doing something wrong or if I'm just snappy.

We did have a big argument a few weeks ago but it was the first in years.

Most days. He's annoying me now by snoring.

I wish mine was annoying me by snoring now (and he will be that shortly) but right now he is annoying me by being awake and talking to me about entirely reasonable and pleasant things that I do not wish to be talked to about right now : /

It is me being unreasonable

We can disagree, but we don't argue: in the thirteen years we've been together, we have never raised our voices to each other, and certainly never called each other names etc. It makes me really sad when I read on here that somebody's partner has called them a 'lazy cunt' or whatever- it just shouldn't happen. He doesn't annoy me either; he's my favourite person in the world, so why would he?

Life still has its challenges, obviously, and I'm not smug. I recognise that I've fallen on my feet with this relationship- my previous ones weren't like this- and I'm very appreciative.

Every day.
Once a week.

Every day.
Once every 2-3 months.

Irritate me- daily (probably mutual).
Argue- every few months maybe.

We work together too so are in each others company 24/7.

Irritates me: several times daily, sometimes hourly(and vice versa I'm quite sure)
Argue: in the early years every couple of months. Nowadays vanishingly rarely. We've been together ages and are both more compassionate, tolerant and very tired!!