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Supermum11 · 29/04/2019 21:52

Ok so since having my DD I haven't got on with my MIL we used to get on so well but now I see that she always puts my DH (her son) last and also my daughter which infuriates me!! 😠.

So here is the thing that is currently making me so angry we me and my dh were hoping to get our DD baptised in June as she is going to be 1 and thought it would be nice to have all the family around for her birthday and also we would like a spring christening but unfortunately the MIL has decided to go away in June since we have told her we were thinking of getting her baptised then but hasn't booked anything yet so I asked her if it was possible for her to delay her holiday as nothing is booked yet and she went mad she expects us to delay the baptism till she gets back I know it's short notice but I would like to get our dd christened before she can walk and also one of the godmothers is not around in July so what do I do?

It makes me so angry as if it was one of her other children she would delay the holiday she has already upset me as my hubby and I were planning to go away in December last year and just as I was booking it I messaged her to ask if she could look after our dog then to which she replied she was going away then but that was the first mention of it and we asked her at least months before to look after our dog in December but she suddenly decided to go away just as we were about to book the holiday my hubby had even booked the time off work so we had to look after her dog instead so she could go on holiday when we were planning to go!!

Anyway we just don't get on since I have had a baby and don't know what to do please give me some advice am I the only one who doesn't get on with my mother in law?

What should I do about the baptism? Should
I have it in July to suite her and not have one of the godmothers there I would really like her at the christening even though we don't get on for my DD but I would still go ahead without her as she is being so stubborn!! But my hubby has said there is no way we are getting our daughter baptised without them 🙄 so shall I just call off the whole thing and not bother getting her baptised? It's causing so many problems and it's probably not worth it what do you think?

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