My ex husband is taking his ex girlfriend to court, because they can't agree which school to send their child too. So she has contacted me and asked me to write a statement to the judge, so he can see what sort of person he is. ( controlling, manipulative, unreasonible, etc etc). I have writen something but it has brought up a lot of bad memories so I am in two minds whether or not to send it. Yes my ex is a pain but I don't have much to do with him now. We don't speak. We only communicate through our 16 year old son. He does owe some child maintenance, and he changes weekend arrangements when he feels like it, but I've had my fair share of court hearings because of him and I just want a peaceful life. Should I send the statement and help her out or should I just let sleeping dogs lie? What would you Do?