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WWYD with this

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Ginandcomic · 28/04/2019 12:25

New to Mumsnet and not sure if this was the best place to post?
Ex and I have a child together. He has taken our child away this weekend.
I have several concerns about his parenting and how reckless he can be none of which were even addressed by anyone that mattered professionally when we split.

Today he sent me a photograph of him in a really dangerous situation. I was horrified and immediately contacted him to ask him what did he think he was doing. He ignored me then an hour or so later after I’d sat sobbing and wondering what was going on, texted me back and told me to get a sense of humour and it was “just a bit of a joke that you’ve fallen for” followed by lots of 😂😂😂

What would you do about this, if anything?

OP posts:
Giggorata · 28/04/2019 14:49

This is deliberate, abusive, childish, cruel, you name it.
I would save the photos and texts, along with any other evidence that you have about your concerns about his recklessness and parenting.

I would contact Children's Services, with copies of the photos and his texts, and seek advice about stopping contact, or seeking supervised contact.

If there an existing Order about Contact, this could be be varied, in Court, on the grounds that his parenting and safeguarding are in doubt.

I would let him know that and that you are stopping unsupervised contact until an assessment has been carried out about his ability to parent and safeguard your child.
You will need to contact a lawyer and have these steps endorsed by the Family Court, if he objects.

Outanabout · 28/04/2019 14:51

You poor thing. That's horrifically abusive.

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