Hi I've never posted before but could really do with some advice from you folks. I've been with my husband for 4years now married for one. We were both married beforehand. We have children from our previous marriages and things go fine most of the time. My ex isn't too much of an issue it's my husband's ex wife I feel insecure about. I'm 8 years older then her and when we got together she posted some nasty things about me being haggard etc on FB which was expected if I had of been younger my husband would of been a cradle snatcher lol!! Anyway I've never been worried about my looks etc and always been quite confident but this really had a bad effect on me to the point I really hate looking in the mirror even though everyone compliments me I guess my confidence has gone because of these petty comments. My husband never really sees her when we pick kids up and I'm usually there but he went alone the other day and mentioned he had actually seen her as she came out of the house probably because I wasn't there. Since hearing this my confidence has nosedived again and I feel stupid thinking he's comparing me to her. I really wish I could get over this. Anyone else felt like this