Upcoming third date with someone. He is a bit older and has been great so far, very reliable, funny, kind, charming... I feel like he “gets” me and can tell him anything. We have very similar likes/dislikes and senses of humour. Obviously I’m not but he’s easy to talk to and would make an amazing boyfriend I think. That seems to be what he’s after and he has said he really likes me and has been pursuing things quite strongly, although is happy to go at my pace. Very understanding.
He has sugggested a third date which we drunkenly planned on the second... I have now realised I can’t do the first day we suggested so told him ASAP but said I’m still excited/suggested a day two days after. He is keen but said he hated how long it is between us going to see each other and how he can’t wait for a “big snog”! Quite sweet but I am still acclimatising myself to that bit and haven’t felt sparks just yet especially around kissing (we have, a fair bit) but I’ve not loved it so far 
do I give it a chance? I do think he’s attractive and I do really enjoy his company, I’m wondering whether it may grow on my side? And I also feel like a dick for moving forward by two days, even though I don’t think that’s too bad?