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Had a shocking morning, humour me

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bloodywhitecat · 21/04/2019 15:37

Was stood in our garden this morning talking to DP about what we were going to do today (and trying to remember the name of a plant), our neighbour drove past very slowly and waved. We live on a little private, unadopted lane on some bends on a NSL B orad, the main road has solid white lines and the exit from the lane is not well maintained but the lane belongs to a large nursing home who do very little to maintain the lane (there are four houses on the lane and we do our best to rake and keep exit to the lane safe).

As we stood chatting I could hear the low roar of a motorbike on the B road, not travelling at huge speed but probably close to the limit for the road. Our neighbour slowly pulled out and the motorbike (1 of 4 travelling together) ploughed into the side of him, the last thing I remember is the thud of the bike hitting the car and watching the rider cartwheel over the car. He landed about 30ft away, face down, just shy of an old oak with a substantial trunk. DP ran out to the biker and I ran indoors to grab the house phone (mobile signals are crap here and no-one ever knows what this bit of road is called). By this time there was chaos. one of the bikers wanted to beat the hell out of DP as they had mistakenly thought he was the driver, the injured biker was face down and non-responsive and cars were coming round the blind bends to be met by bikes, cars and a massive fuel spillage. We sent bikes in both directions to stop the traffic (yet some ignorant bint insisted one coming by in her car despite the road being blocked and a lifeless biker on the road). Suddenly the biker responded to his name and was able to tell me how old he was.

Soon after the air ambulance arrived followed by the police (x3), land ambulance and first response car and a host of other assistance, the time spent waiting for sirens were probably some of the longest of my life. We are 50 minutes by road from our nearest A&E and it takes ambulances a while to get to us.

We have been campaigning for something to be done about a) the speed limit and the road markings on the main road and b) for the condition of the lane to be addressed. The county council have said there has to be a fatality before they will act, the nursing home just don't seem to care about the state of their lane.

Thankfully it would appear that the biker was VERY lucky, he seems to have escaped with little more than a broken wrist but we are waiting to hear just how he is.

Things happen so scarily quickly. Many years ago I witnessed a 4 year old knocked down and killed and now this, life is precious and can change in the blink of an eye.

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BentBaastard · 21/04/2019 15:41

Goodness! How awful for everyone.

It’s amazing how life can change so quickly......

Glad he was ok but I think another conversation is needed with the council.

GeorgieTheGorgeousGoat · 21/04/2019 15:43

The council? Wasn’t the accident the neighbours fault?

bloodywhitecat · 21/04/2019 15:45

One of the biker's mates had taken loads of photos and is sending them to me later so we can take it back to the council. I think it is bloody awful that someone has to die before they will take action, since Dec 2018 three vehicles have left the roads on these bends yet still nothing happens. We are pushing for a road sign that shows the concealed road and for a lowering of the limit to 40mph.

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SittinOnThaToilet · 21/04/2019 15:45

Did your neighbour not check before he pulled out?

LindsayDentonsCat · 21/04/2019 15:46

Oh goodness what a shock. Be very gentle with yourselves for the rest of the weekend.
I'm glad the motorcyclist is okay.

bloodywhitecat · 21/04/2019 15:50

He did check, we saw him but the crown of the bend means that anything travelling at more than about 40 is on the entrance to the lane before a driver pulling out is safely across on to their side of the carriageway.

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Clutterbugsmum · 21/04/2019 15:52

SittinOnThaToilet The OP has said the road is a CONCEALED ROAD so I would assume that the car was edging out not rushing out of the junction.

OP it is sad that councils are not doing enough for road safety especially on country roads.

Hope the rider and your neighbour are ok.

CassandraCross · 21/04/2019 16:11

bloodywhitecat is it worth investigating the possibility of action in some form again the Nursing Home for their failure to maintain the lane?

I know what you mean about Council's failing to act unless there is a fatality. I used to live in an area where there was an horrendous accident blackspot, locals and the Police repeatedly asked the Council to put in measures to reduce the danger, the Council repeatedly refused even though several people had died over the years. Finally, tragedy struck for someone who was wealthy enough, connected enough and powerful enough, the measures that had been requested for years appeared within 48 hours.

Hope the biker makes a good recovery and hope that you feel a bit calmer now.

RevealTheLegend · 21/04/2019 16:21

The trouble is, people who ignore the sensible approach speed for a blind bend will invariably ignore speed limits and concealed entrance signs.

Putting in speed limits on their own almost never works.

bumblingbovine49 · 21/04/2019 16:30

Is it.possie to have some sort of mirror at the junction for those pulling out so that you can see better or died the layout not work for that?

bloodywhitecat · 21/04/2019 17:10

There is already a mirror which gives us a bit more vision, one of us clean it most weekends but it still only gives a little more visibility. I always open my window when exiting so I can hear what is coming too but not everyone does.

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IncognitaIgnorama · 21/04/2019 17:21

Gosh, you must be really shaken too, OP.

With unadopted roads, I don't think anyone can force the owner to take care of them - could you suggest all homes will contribute, maybe? Rural roads are the worst - people violate the speed limits and there's little you or the council can do. We live on a blind bend just before a primary school - there's a movable speed camera there quite often (parish council initiative) and it regularly clocks people going above 80. It's not quite two lanes wide - you can pass another car, but you need to slow right down and be cautious to do so. Bikers aren't a problem, but commuters are - they are the ones who seem regularly to be going at double the speed limit according to the camera data. There have been some serious accidents but no fatalities as yet, largely because the traffic is one direction at commuting time and no locals are insane enough to walk on that stretch of road.

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