Treat for partner.

[Mysterian]

It's Friday. Your partner has been lovely today. You want to give them some kind of treat that requires NO money. What do you do?

And no sexual hanky panky goings on either!

Shoulder rub? Suggest watching their favourite video? Agree to do something the next day? Offer to clean the chinchilla cage out for them even though it's their turn on the rota? (If you have a chinchilla.)

Bake them a cake?

Cook a favourite meal?

My husband runs me a bath and then sits on the floor and washes my back (sensual rather than sexual), shampoos my hair and rinses it then keeps me company as I lay back and relax and it’s an intimate time to quietly chat just about us.

It would definitely be sex things.

I'd like someone to make sure there was hot water, tell me to go for a nice relaxing bath while they tidied and cooked, then gave me the remote and let me choose what to watch while we ate. Then desert and a back rub or foot rub, and a cuddle.

But that's just me. I'd say cleaning out the cage unasked, and without acting like you want a medal for it, would be an excellent start...

My really (sometimes overly) helpful DH loves little surprises, such as me making his favourite cake or meal, or giving him a massage. I always say "and you're not going to help me with this": in fact, I've been known to enforce this by putting a sleep mask on him, so he can't see to help, and he has to wonder what his treat will be!