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Dh and his tonights admission of illness...

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TheCanyon · 12/04/2019 22:20

He says hes had an odd tingly feeling in random parts for a while.

Hes NEVER said a word about tingling etc. Is a total drama llama, a wee papercut hes bout at blood loss so i dont know what to think.

And blames my progressive neurological condition for not telling me.

My condition has no effect on him at all, not a single fucking speck at all at the moment, i do everything.

I just dont know what to think. I do actually...

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LovelyJubbly67 · 12/04/2019 23:21

some supportive wife you are!

LilQueenie · 12/04/2019 23:22

tell him to go to a doctor.

Chocmallows · 12/04/2019 23:23

My ex had a phobia of blood, vomiting and anything relating to first aid type issues when it suited him

He told me during the start of my second labour that he hoped I could be faster and he didn't want to go through it again. My first was 7 hours and straightforward and he sat and read...Yes ex for a reason for me too 🤣

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DishingOutDone · 12/04/2019 23:24

Does he ever support you OP? Whats the rest of the backstory? You've been ill for some time I take it? Does he suffer from a terrible case of competitive illness?

ShesABelter · 12/04/2019 23:26

Do you even like each other?

Erythronium · 12/04/2019 23:48

"i do everything."

This doesn't sound good. Do you want to say more about it. Is he not pulling his weight even though you're unwell?

TheCanyon · 13/04/2019 00:01

ShesABelter. No. Weka

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beenhereages1 · 13/04/2019 00:06

Right Confused

YourSarcasmIsDripping · 13/04/2019 00:15

If you don't then the tingling and the lies are irrelevant. Do you need him?

MitziTheTabbyIsMyOverlord · 13/04/2019 00:28

STI?

Schuyler · 13/04/2019 00:39

You don’t believe him, it sounds like you don’t even like him. Why are you still together?

Sallycinammonbangsthedruminthe · 13/04/2019 00:42

Maybe just talk to each other? Maybe he is nervous or upset about something and its masking his feelings? My husband always gets stomach ache when he has to deal with something that he is upset or worried about or if he feels he might let us down in some way....you wont know till you stop being angry and communicate....

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