My Granddad taught me to lay a fire, make tea with tea leaves, set the range, smoke cigarettes so that a German sniper couldn't see the glow/it wouldn't get soggy if it rained (in theory, he didn't give me cigarettes!), gave me loads of advice, all essentially about magic/superstition/living with nature and made me feel safe and special all the time.
His maisonette smelled of beeswax and paraffin from the brass lamps, there was always real butter in a dish in the pantry and Jersey Milk on the dresser. He planted Forget-me-nots, climbing roses and Honeysuckle outside the bedroom window for Nanny and grew Sweet Peas for her to put in a crystal vase on her dressing table.
Nanny had a huge wardrobe with some fur coats, shelves for hats - and hats in hatboxes with beautiful feathers and trimmings (her family were successful Milliners prior to WWII and the hats had been kept long after - probably contained some from endangered or now extinct species, to be honest). She had a triple mirror dressing table with distinctive glass perfume atomisers and trays for her jewellery and a silver hairbrush and matching hand mirror. After she died, Granddad kept it exactly as was.
Everytime we went there, we had lamb rolled around sage and onion stuffing, potatoes, carrots, peas and a tinned tomato. And he obviously charmed somebody after Nanny died (suddenly, undiagnosed cancer), as he had fruitcake brought to him by 'the woman down the road' who my mother, naturally, absolutely detested.
Granddad smelled of whatever he used as handcream, which was seen as strange for a man, but it was probably something he'd done from looking after horses from his childhood.
There was a wooden musical box at the back of his living room that he used to stash big bars of chocolate that he'd give me when my mother was down the village getting his shopping.
But the best memory was one that happened every time we left. He'd 'brustle' me. I'd go to kiss him goodbye, his periwinkle blue eyes would gleam and he'd rub his grey bristles over my cheek as he cuddled me. I'd wriggle and squawk and I loved it.