I am really bothered by dick pics - has anyone ever met someone after receiving one?

[lborgia]

For some reason I’ve been told about, or read about dick pics and dating several times in the last couple of weeks. Here is my question.

Has anyone gone on to meet a guy after being sent an unsolicited photo? Ever?

I can imagine that once in a while you both get carried away, and that’s a whole other thing - no problem there - but is it ever anything other than confronting (or laughable) and why would men keep doing this if they don’t actually get in sex out of it?

Kind of a dull question I suppose, but I’m truly baffled.

Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!

I internet date and I would NEVER meet someone after they sent me a dick pick. That suggests that a TOTAL stranger has sent you a photo of their cock. That is a massive red flag for me.

I would never send a total stranger a photo of my body parts either.

My 17 year old DD blocks every boy / man that sends her dick pics, so it isn't a generational thing either.

It has nothing to do with prudery or body shame either, it is just good manners not to send strangers requested photos of your body parts in the same way it is good manners not to ask complete strangers for photos of theirs.

Damn auto-correct!

It has nothing to do with prudery or body shame either, it is just good manners not to send strangers UNrequested photos of your body parts in the same way it is good manners not to ask complete strangers for photos of theirs.

God, no. Anyone who sent me a dick pic, whether they had met me yet or not, has clearly misjudged me greatly. And as such, I would have no desire whatsoever to meet them, or see them again.

You'd think these men would have started to get the message by now that the majority of women do not wish to receive random dick pics. Yet still they persist. If they showed their dick off in the street unsolicited, they'd be arrested. So why is it okay via phone?

Just to balance it, my male Facebook friends get sent pictures of women boobs and sometimes more.

I once had a message off a woman who was somewhat confused and she sent me nudes.

Men want cleavage to wank to?

Send them a nice pic of a man's bumcrack in a bra.

Wait a while.

Then reveal.

www.dailyedge.ie/woman-trolls-reddit-with-buttcrack-1743014-Oct2014/

I find dick pic culture very sinister - I refuse to think any man who sends one genuinely expects the recipient to find it arousing (unless possibly during a sext exchange between longer term partners).

I agree with the PP who says it's just flashing for the internet age. Yuck.

I must live a very sheltered life confusedfornow. The only naked picture i ever sent showed me mid-thigh to feet in the bath, my husband did think it was quite racy though.

No. Immediately proves they have no acceptance of consent or respect

I think they like the power - the making you see their dick part.

@confusedfornow it is v rare that a woman will send an UNSOLICITED nude

Love that Buzzy!!

I have just come back to this thread and an old quotation came to mind.. “so unlike the home life of our own dear Queen...”

It's vile and not sexy, just a modern form of flashing and no doubt turns them on. Like the bumcrack idea though!

To me, it indicates that they're after a shag only, or an affair. I was sent lots when I was single, and every guy was just after a fling.

When I met my now DH, he never sent me anything inappropriate, and it was obvious that he was looking for a life partner, rather than a hook up.

If I was single now, I wouldn't ever meet a man that sent me a dick pic. I would delete and block, instantly.

Been sent them, never by anyone I’ve dated thankfully. Dicks are far from aesthetically pleasing, I don’t understand what guys think they will achieve from it.

They're ugly and look like plucked chickens 😂