Would you report to social services

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Someone who was in abusive relationship and split. After split:
Called police on him for being violent/trashing house/ smashing her car windows and slashing her tyres.
He hit her when together. Threatened her.
Phoning her. Threatening to spread naked photos.
Stole items from her shed whilst drunk.

Then you find out she is seeing him again

Small kids involved. He is not dad.

So scared he is going to hurt all 4 of them.

Or do you accept this is who she wants to be with and she is an adult

Yes I would.

I would.

Social services already visited after police report but didn't get involved as she was making very real effort to stay away from him.

Perhaps now they would talk sense into her and help her see she cannot be with him? For the safety of the kids.

He is alcoholic/drug addict.

Report report report.

Yes. Without a doubt

Can it be done anonymously. If she found out she would never speak to me again.

I'm usually a mind my own business sort of person but definitely report.

Yep, report to social services child protection team.

You can make a report to the nspcc. They have 2 options, one is complete Anon, another is a great option if you aren’t happy with your info being passed on. They hold your info on record but don’t pass on your name/details to social services, but if they need to contact you for more information they ask the nspcc who will get in touch with you

I would, those poor kids need someone to look out for them

Report it you are obviously concerned about this person and her children you may in fact be doing her a favour by reporting it. You are looking out for her and her children.

Thanks