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Becoming a Lodger (rather than a housemate)

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IrvinaYalom · 31/03/2019 14:03

This may well be a silly question and yes, I do know that Google exists but I am going to ask here anyway because I trust you all to give me proper sensible answers (God knows why).

I need to rent a room in London for three months only from mid May to early August. I do not want to live with "housemates" though, I want to move into a spare room in somebody's home. I will be working very hard, doing an intensive course and do not want to be in a social environment. I just need a room with a desk and preferably my own bathroom/toilet. I am very happy to live entirely by someone else's rules (with in reason obviously!) and want absolutely zero risk of household drama. I have been researching and have looked on spareroom.com and the like but it all seems very housemate-y. Young professionals or students all living together and sharing. I do not want this dynamic.

So please someone tell me, where do I look or advertise myself to become a lodger lodger? A proper lodger- living in solitary, hard-working peace, in someone else's home.

I will be very grateful for any and all tips/advice. Smile

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SpaceCadet4000 · 31/03/2019 14:27

On Spare Room in the advanced search options you can check 'live in landlord' and that should get you better results.

Just to give an example of what comes up:
www.spareroom.co.uk/flatshare/flatshare_detail.pl?flatshare_id=12374956&search_id=797051353&city_id=&flatshare_type=offered&search_results=%2Fflatshare%2F%3Fsearch_id%3D797051353%26&

IrvinaYalom · 31/03/2019 14:35

Ooh thank you! I didn't notice that option. Will search again.

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Grimbles · 31/03/2019 14:41

Local Universities may have spare accommodation that you can rent short-term over the summer.

Air BnB may be useful too.

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IrvinaYalom · 31/03/2019 15:00

University accommodation is an excellent tip that I totally neglected to think of, thank you Grimbles. Something like that would suit me perfectly.

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GrimDamnFanjo · 31/03/2019 15:42

You could look at Airbnb for longer lets?

IrvinaYalom · 31/03/2019 16:10

I have actually just been doing exactly that Grim and have found a set up that looks potentially perfect. I've just sent a message to the owner so fingers crossed she likes the look of me and doesn't mind the brand new profile and lack of references etc!

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Stickywhitelovepiss · 31/03/2019 16:14

We are on spareroom periodically, advertising our spare room with en suite in a quiet, drama-free professional household - and we are 37 and 56! I think these kind of places are out there if you keep gleaning on through.

IrvinaYalom · 31/03/2019 16:18

Oooh are you London based Sticky and in the market for a diligently hard working little mouse of a lodger who will never ever attempt friendly kitchen chit chat when you are just "not in the mood"?

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IrvinaYalom · 31/03/2019 16:19

(basically joking there [but also not])

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IrvinaYalom · 31/03/2019 18:08

Unfortunately I don't think university accommodation is available until June which is annoying as that seemed like an ideal solution..

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Stickywhitelovepiss · 01/04/2019 08:31

Sorry Irvina - yes to London but room occupied for the foreseeable! Good luck in the search though.

IrvinaYalom · 01/04/2019 12:13

That's ok Sticky, looks like I need used to rejection as just been turned down by ideal looking AirBnB host too...

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