"I'm not sure there was such a thing as cleanser earlier in the 20th century" there was.
I discovered a book at my grans once which had been her grans which was given to her by her mother on her wedding day. Basically "how to be a good mother and wife" was a real eye opener!
It covered cleansing routines, hair styling (including how to create solutions to "fix" hair - no hairspray then let alone mousse or gel), depilation (including pubic area "for some husbands preference), what we'd now refer to as make up (but they wouldn't as only harlots wore make up)...
Re washing up liquid before it was liquid - these came as soap flakes in a box one of my grans kept using until completely discontinued.
I'm only 46 and I still remember milk, fresh juice and squash being mostly in glass bottles. I certainly remember "deli" items being wrapped in grease proof paper my mum still unwraps these from the plastic at home and rewraps in paper before refrigerating, she swears the plastic makes them "sweat" and go off quicker otherwise I'm not sure she's wrong.
"There, in that one sentence, you show the different mentality.
Back then physical goods were expensive so people looked after them. They treasured what they had. They repaired, re-used, re-purposed. They didn't have the throw-away mentality.
It's why oldies are such hoarders" this!
Drives me nuts how easily dd will decide to just bin something! Over the years it's led to me teaching her how to repair things or repurpose them.
But then I've known people my age just as bad who it wouldn't occur to them to check the fuse before throwing away a "broken" lamp! Hell I've known people do things like throw away a lamp cos it needs a new shade! So wasteful.
"Cables were fabric covered I'm guessing. Not sure about plugs, ceramic maybe. It's quite depressing how surrounded in plastic tat we are. I can't imagine it being banned as we've become so reliant."
Remember not a lot of electricity or electrical items were used, electricity itself was expensive and the electrical items very expensive. When my mum & her parents moved to a tenement scheme in the 60's it was the first home any of them had that had electricity at all! My grandparents were very wary of the cost (I remember them being like this even in 70's and 80's when we visited) and preferred to use gas or even things like candles rather than "waste" electricity.
I was fascinated by how my grans shopped as neither liked supermarkets, there were rows of shops near where they lived with independent butcher, fishmonger, baked, green grocer, confectioner and I've no idea what it would be called but a shop that sold flour, oats, seeds, lentils, pulses etc loose in barrels that customers scooped into either a container they bought or their own containers (and this was weighed before and after the product went in) and they were charged by weight etc and that's who they used.
The shopkeepers/owners knew them by name and encouraged loyalty by "looking after" regular customers with little extras. The butchers and fishmongers had sawdust on the floor and items that were particular to their shop eg the fish cakes in my dads mums shop were more herby/flavoured than elsewhere.
"and plugs were made of the old bakalite material" Bakelite is plastic.
The earliest plugs were I believe made from iron.
"I think the increase in women working out of the house has meant that shopping little and often is not so practical any more" the idea that women didn't work outside the home until post WWII is a myth. Certainly working class women always worked outside the home as much as possible, no welfare state and the men didn't earn loads and big families like my parents to feed (mum's one of 6 dads one of 5 and for their generation that wasn't considered a big family, my grandparents siblings all except those who couldn't had bigger families, one had 13 kids all still alive)
I think we need to be careful not to romanticise too much though.
"to do everything the VIctorian housewife did with a bar of soap." There were huge issues with personal hygiene in the Victorian era and beyond, I hear the tales from my parents of how they and their siblings all used the same tub of water to wash in on a Sunday night but they fail to connect this with the fact they got every bug going and are now 60+ years later still suffering the effects of that. It wasn't all good and today's practices aren't all bad.
we need to find a balance.