Thank you, DameFanny, interesting to hear about these, and also which conditions go together. Note made.
I'm putting together a "case notes" for my appointment so I don't forget anything.
It's so helpful to hear from you all.
HoneysuckIejasmine Sorry about your diagnosis. Wonder if mine is UCTD rather than SLE, as it does seem to be more about joint pain and fatigue, body temperature. Amazing you had pneumonia before you realised you were ill. I'm also rarely ill, so this has been quite a shock.
FuzzyPuffling Yes, these disorders are misunderstood. Sounds like eves are worst for many of us. Hadn't thought about that - it being end of day. Also, I cant stay asleep for longer than a couple of hours. Either dry mouth or aches wake me up. Lately, I've slept on, and am shocked some mornings to then wake at 8 am. I guess broken sleep means feeling more tired in the evenings.
Like the sound of your electric blanket!
crazymare20 I heard the same from my GP, but my symptoms have been marked and I think it needs further investigation. But it explains those bouts of good health that we all seem to have had at some stage.
FuzzyPuffling I think your case demonstrates how closely these bloods need to be analysed. Just re-read my report and it says I tested negatively for other Sjogren's antibodies, so it is just ANA and anti Ro. I wonder if this means UCTD, too.
Cocolepew Your case also shows this - that antibodies can be negative yet the disorder can be there. I swear this is why so many things have been missed with me. After my funny turn I thought it was diabetes but my OH then realised it might be thyroid. Yet that comes back clear each time.
Pleurisy certainly hints at lupus. I'm sorry to hear you've been suffering so much. I don't know how you manage to work with kids. I have had to take so much time out yet it seems feeble to just say - fatigue. I'm glad you manage day to day. Think I am just learning now. It does explain why I felt the need to scale back my life drastically, to just a few contracts I could do easily. It has been quite a few months. Annoyingly I was just told by one GP "it's stress" and that life events, like my divorce, caused it, but I have been through far, far worse and not had anything. I think emotional stress makes it worse but you can't avoid that, really.
Hard not to feel guilty. Some days I have done very little indeed. I'm so worried about my future. Arghhhh...
One tip I can give you is rest when you think you need to, don't feel guilty about it.
Good luck