My son who is 5 has started soiling himself at school , the school are concerned it is a physical thing as he does it and doesn't tell them or realise he's done it, however he has NEVER soiled himself at home, when at home he will stop and say I need to go to the toilet and then go so I do not believe there is a physical aspect to it if it's only happening at school, I've taken him to the GP who have said it's common at this age, which isn't very helpful. I personally think it's an anxiety thing , starting year 1 has been a huge change for him , I have spoken with the school who have said he's a happy child and not being bullied , they have also said he can go whenever he needs and doesn't need to ask , they suggested making him go in the morning before school however he doesn't always need to go in the morning. We have a few good weeks and then it happens again . He is also still wet at night . Has anyone else experienced this or could give some helpful advice on it?