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Today l made a difference (contains references to DV)

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Solongtoshort · 24/03/2019 21:59

This morning l was up early and reading a thread whilst eating my breakfast, l commented that she should speak to her family.

As it was sunny (not warm) l opened my windows and could hear my neighbour being screamed at by her husband and the kids where crying. He was shouting horrible words at her. I didn’t know weather to phone the police and get involved, l find her husband rude he once shouted at me because l wouldn’t take in his parcels for his work at home business whilst l was on mat leave. My dh said we should stay out of it.

I have deleted everything else l typed to tell you as it seemed selfish of me to type about it and l feel like it was reading like l wanted to be a hero which l don’t , am not.

I stepped into a situation which l couldn’t predict the outcome, didn’t know the full extent and was shocked to see how the woman next door to me was suffering.

Her abuser has been arrested, she and her children are safe tonight.

I am pleased but feel ashamed by the sorrow l feel for myself having witnessed what l did today and how broken she was. She told me she opened the windows hoping someone would phone the police. She wasn’t physically hurt today, l just helped her speak up.

My head is spinning.

It was because of the thread l read that made me step in.

OP posts:
RuggyPeg · 24/03/2019 22:05

Good for you. It's hard to step in sometimes when you find aggression anxiety-inducing and there's nothing wrong with wanting to protect yourself. I recently said something to a young woman in a supermarket after seeing her boyfriend shout abuse at her and then storm off. He was a vile human being and she looked so downtrodden. These men are the scourge of the earth.

Sn0tnose · 24/03/2019 22:40

You did a good and important thing.

CanuckBC · 24/03/2019 22:53

You did the right thing. Thank you for helping her. It will hopefully make a long term difference in her children’s and her life.

AfterSchoolWorry · 24/03/2019 22:55

Well done to you. You should feel proud.

🌹

Jamhandprints · 24/03/2019 23:02

On the train today I heard an elderly man snarl at his wife to watch her mouth or he'd push her onto the tracks when they got off.
I told him off and told the woman she was worth more than being spoken to like that. She seemed really touched that someone would stand up for her.
I know I handled it wrong, I shouldn't have spoken to the man at all but after reading these threads on mn I just had to say something.
Can't tell anyone in RL about this, they'll think I'm crazy.

Jamhandprints · 24/03/2019 23:03

Well done OP.

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