I'm a divorcee mum with three children and work in the education sector. I've been happily on my own since I left h nearly 4 years ago and am not interested in meeting anyone etc...
Anyway, I work in a lovely team and we get on well. There is one guy who I 'thought' was a really nice, genuine guy but definitely nothing else nor have I ever done/said anything to indicate this.
He's on my FB (which I don't go on much tbh) as are my other co workers and has never really messaged me.
So night before last he messaged me asking how I was etc, I replied and asked about work as I thought maybe there had been a problem. This is about 11pm and I am just getting off to bed. He ended up saying he couldn't sleep so I asked if he was OK etc..then he went on to say 'the only thing that is bothering me is that I can't sleep, I'm too warm and I only have shorts on'. I nearly died and swiftly ended the convo!
I thought tbh he was probably drunk and didn't know what he was on about but yesterday evening about the same time he texted again 'Hi, how are you?'. I ignored it and replied this morning with an 'ok thanks'.
What should I make of this? I feel pretty awkward going in to work now Monday and trying to totally ignore it all. I'm not going to say anything to anyone as I don't want to start any gossip. One part of me thinks I'm just reading into it too much and he's probably drunk/trying to be friendly, the other part of me thinks quite literally (ewww).