Firstly apologies for being a dad, I wasn’t sure else where to go.
I recently found out my wife has been cheating (99.9% certain). Our 2 year old uses an old phone to watch peppa etc and I saw pictures and videos she’s been sending to another guy. There was also a few memes from a friend which suggested she’d be going out to have sex on Saturday night - she went out and didn’t return until the very early hours.
My heartbreak is two fold. Firstly because of the cheating and lying, but also the idea of losing my wife and daughter.
My wife suffers with depression and also has a problem with drinking - I feel worried about the idea of me not being around to hold everything together.
I’m at a total loss of what to do.
Should I confront her, knowing it could be the end of our marriage?
Should I collect more evidence?
I still love her, and would be willing to try and work through it, but I’m not sure she will be able to see through the haze she’s currently in.
A million other things bouncing round my head right now but will leave it there.
Advice very very welcome.