Omg sorry need to rant and could do with some advice. I have a new partner who has a lg with someone who he literally spent a couple of nights with nearly 2yrs ago. The issue is she is using the baby as a weapon bug time and as much as i can support him its starting to really affect him and by proxy me. He is supposed to have her every other weekend but she keeps cancelling if he doesn't comply to her every whim such as drop off time ( this had always been the same time but if he needs to make it earlier or later due to lifts she will deny him having her at all that weekend) changing the weekend late the night before he is due to have her or on a weekend he isn't due he will get a msg saying "you need to have lg this weekend" and if he can't then she will refuse him the next time he is supposed to, the latest is he told her he wasn't available just one weekend in a couple of months and now she has booked something he needs to attend for that exact weekend even though they literally discussed the fact he wasn't around 8 days ago! If he did that she would outright deny him access. I have kids of my own and their dad see's them regular as clockwork so i haven't a clue how to help my s/o get through this.