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How to prepare for surgery...

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Guylian2019 · 10/03/2019 19:13

I'm having an operation in 5 weeks. What's the best way to prepare myself for surgery?

I've bought new pyjamas and some loose fitting tops as I'll struggle to get normal tops on. My arm will be in a cast for 2 months. I'm going to try and eat a little better before it and do a little exercise. I'm currently quite unfit and overweight. I've never had a big op before.

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DaisyChainsForever · 10/03/2019 19:14

How long will you be in hospital for? A dressing gown and slippers will probably also come in handy.

Guylian2019 · 10/03/2019 19:15

They think I can come out the next day but it depends.

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Honeyroar · 10/03/2019 19:18

The main thing you can do is to eat healthily. Lots of fresh fruit and veg - especially vitamin C. Try and avoid people with colds. And otherwise try not to worry.

Re the arm in a sling, if you’ve long hair, try and organise someone to put it in a ponytail etc. That was one of the hardest things to do one armed. And look for shawls, they’re useful (I had shoulder surgery a few times).

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DoomOnTheBroom · 10/03/2019 19:18

Arrange to have a food shop delivered the day before your surgery of easy to cook meals/ready prepped ingredients. Include a few treats for yourself and something nice for your dinner that night before you go nil by mouth.

Get a Limbo cast cover so you can bath or shower without worrying about getting the cast wet, they're worth the money.

Have some little treats and pick-me-ups ready for when you hit that point in recovery where you're frustrated and sore. They don't have to be expensive or elaborate, just simple things like a new lipstick or a book you've been looking forward to reading.

Lwmommy · 10/03/2019 19:18

What support will you have at home post op? You'll find basic stuff more difficult so maybe get one of those devices to make opening jars easier, a v shaped pillow to rest your arm on when youre sleeping, a waterproof cast cover for bathing.

If you'll have a sling then a big stretchy warm cardy will be easier than a coat to get on, otherwise you'll need a really baggy coat that you can do up while you're arm, cast and sling are taking up space.

Honeyroar · 10/03/2019 19:19

Yes, the above poster’s advice of pre preparing healthy meals is good.

SauvignonBlanche · 10/03/2019 19:19

What are you having done?
If it’s shoulder surgery or upper arm invest in a couple of front-fastening bras.

Look after yourself and keep an eye on your skin. Stay away from coughs and colds as much as you can. Any weight you lose will be good.

The best way people can improve outcomes would be to stop smoking if that applies?

Flurgle · 10/03/2019 19:20

Eat a good level of protein to aid healing.
In fact- getting good levels of vitamins etc would not be a bad idea.

Guylian2019 · 10/03/2019 19:26

What do you mean by keep an eye on my skin?

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Guylian2019 · 10/03/2019 20:01

I don't smoke.

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SauvignonBlanche · 10/03/2019 20:28

I said keep an eye on your skin as any cuts, grazes or rashes near where the surgery site is a common cause for cancellations.

PlugUgly1980 · 10/03/2019 20:28

A loose vest top to wear under your gown to go to theatre, and a dressing gown to wear. I had emergency surgery (well saw Consultant on Friday and operates on Sat). No one told me what up take clothes wise. The nurse who got me my gown couldn't believe I didn't have a verse type top to wear (had to take bra of due to metal clasps etc). Also the theatre staff told the nurse off as I was wheeled down for surgery without a dressing gown or cardigan on over my gown, so I was cold. Likewise didn't have anything warm to put on as I came out of recovery. Don't wear jewellery, flip flops if there's a chance you'll be staying in long enough to need a shower, but also good for just slipping on to go to loo. Hair bobble (assuming it's long enough to tie back), but just an elastic one, no metal on it.

PlugUgly1980 · 10/03/2019 20:30

Verse = vest!

Nnnnnineteen · 10/03/2019 20:36

Take arnica tablets, starting a few days before the op to help minimise bruising, both internal and external.

JRMisOdious · 10/03/2019 20:42

Don’t take anything without checking with your surgeon first: even homeopathic treatments like arnica can have consequences, eg affect blood clotting etc, extremely important during surgery, clearly.

Runkle · 10/03/2019 20:48

I agree with boosting your immunity with a healthy diet and prepping meals. Also arnica tablets, I've taken them before surgery and I'm convinced they helped with recovery compared to others who've had same op.
Wet wipes/flannel, some nice body lotion to help you feel fresh.
Practice doing things one handed - I broke my elbow so had to learn pretty quickly - things like getting your card/money out of your purse, opening things, going to toilet etc.

Noisygirls · 10/03/2019 22:04

I’m one week post surgery and wish I’d thought of this..slightly random selection of things!

  • two sistema (or other make water bottles) bottles that you can drink from through straw in bed. Have had to drink a lot of water to stop getting bunged up from all the inactivity mixed with meds
  • change your bed sheets day before you go in. Random one but we realised we needed to change ours the day I came out. Wouldn’t have killed us to leave them they weren’t gross, but definitely felt nice to get into clean sheets when feeling so rough
  • lip balm for hospital. Not sure why but my lips were really dry for a while after
  • totally agree with taking arnica tablets before

Hope it goes well

Cherrysoup · 10/03/2019 22:05

Prep meals if there’s nobody to do this at home. Other than eating protein to promote healing, there’s nothing much else you can do, really. I had 3 emergency operations in a short space of time, zero preparation as it was due to an accident. My saviour was my iPad so I wasn’t bored.

EmperorBallpitine · 10/03/2019 22:09

Take ear buds and a hooded dressing gown. Its much easier to sleep in hospital with headphones in (soothing music) and hood up

Guylian2019 · 11/03/2019 04:37

Thanks

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smurfy2015 · 11/03/2019 05:10

Items to purchase: equipment for your home, food, and toiletries
A few small pieces of equipment for your home, toiletries, and packaged goods are examples of items you will probably need after surgery. Consider purchasing the items below to help make your recovery process a little smoother.

  1. Shower chair. A shower chair can help reduce the risk of falling by allowing you to sit and rest during the showering process. These chairs are helpful after having surgery and taking pain medications, which can tire you out. They are also ideal for people who have accompanying injuries that may make them unsteady on their feet, like a brain injury which can cause dizziness.
  1. Detachable shower head. Typically, you’ll have to keep your incision dry for a period of time. A detachable shower head makes it easier to avoid getting your incision wet. It’s also a good idea to cover this area with a plastic bag and tape or a large waterproof bandage.
  1. Pump soap. Using soaps in a pump container make the bathing process easier with just one arm.
  1. Pillows. Find some extra pillows around your house or purchase one or two. You may find comfort if you prop your injured arm up with a pillow while you’re sitting on your couch or lying in bed.
  1. Packaged and frozen food. Fresh is best, but having a few meals available in the freezer can help you in a pinch. Pick up a few frozen meals and a few bags of frozen fruits and vegetables for a quick side dish or snack. Also consider buying ingredients for meals that freeze well, like soups, to make before your surgery.
  1. High fiber foods. You may experience constipation after surgery, which is normal. Buy some high-fiber foods at your grocery store to combat this uncomfortable feeling. Here are some examples:

Oatmeal
Black beans
Prunes
Apples, pears, and baked potatoes with skin
Broccoli
Raspberries and blueberries
Air-popped popcorn
Drinking plenty of water after surgery is another good practice.

  1. Laxatives. Consider buying an over-the-counter laxative, such as Metamucil, to help with constipation.
  1. Some of your favorite foods. Purchase one or two of your favorite foods, such as a pint of ice cream or a small bag of chips. It’s okay to indulge in moderation.
  1. Medicine box. Keep your vitamins and pain and prescription medications organized with a medicine box. You’ll probably be a little groggy after surgery and you want to take the right dose at the right time on the right day.
  1. Large waterproof bandages or trash bags and athletic tape. You’ll need to keep your incision covered until your doctor tells you otherwise. This means you’ll have to cover your incision with when you shower to ensure it does not get wet.

  2. Toiletries. Load up on things you know you’ll need and the brands you prefer. This helps prevent a friend or spouse tracking down your favorite brand of toothpaste or toilet paper.

  3. Wardrobe updates. Getting dressed will be a lot easier if you have shirts that button or zip, instead of ones that pull over your head. Then, make these shirts easily accessible in your closet before surgery. Also, consider buying a pair of supportive shoes that slip on and off or have Velcro straps, since tying your shoes with one hand is no easy feat.

Practical and emotional support
Let’s face it, there are some tasks that are easier to do with two arms. While your shoulder is healing, enlist the help of others to get some things done around the house, like cooking and cleaning. At the same time, having family and good friends nearby can provide the emotional support you may need during your recovery.

  1. Have a contact person after surgery. You’ll need someone to drive you home after surgery. If you live alone, make sure you’ve got someone—a friend or relative—lined up to check on you once you return home from the operation. It’s also a good idea to have their contact information just in case you need something.

  2. Confirm the help of your spouse, friend, or relative. Identify one or several people to help out around your house and drive you where you need to go for the first few weeks after surgery. You’ll need help with everyday tasks, such as doing laundry, and walking your dog. And until your doctor clears you to drive, you’ll also need someone to drive you to and from physical therapy, as well as any other places you may want or need to go.

  3. Ask for company. It can be tough to be sidelined from the sports and activities you enjoy. To help keep your spirits up, ask for visitors. Seeing a familiar face may boost your spirits.

Finally, a positive attitude is something you can’t run out and buy, but is important to have. Recovering from surgery takes time, and you’ll need to be patient. Stay positive, and focus on the small successes you’ve had.

Typical Home Preparations

Preparing the home before surgery can help a patient avoid over-using the injured arm after surgery. Consider the following:

Make loose-fitting clothes accessible, particularly shirts that button or zip in the front. Try to avoid clothing that goes over the head to make the dressing processes easier.

Locate extra pillows may provide additional support in bed or when sitting.

Move any objects that may prevent a clear walking path in order to prevent tripping and falling.

Bathroom accessories such as a shower seat, grab bar, or a detachable showerhead may aid in the bathing process.

Arrange for a caregiver, such as a spouse or friend, to help prepare meals and help around the house after surgery.

Arrange for transportation, since driving is not advised for the first six weeks after surgery.

Place frequently used items—such as canned food, pots and pans, and appliances—at counter height to prevent overextending the arm.

Go shopping: buy toiletries and pre-made meals to prevent needing to do these tasks after surgery.

Plan and prepare your meals for the next several weeks. Store the meals in containers or sandwich bags and place them in the refrigerator or freezer for easy reheating.

You may also want to stock up on easy-to-handle, ready-to-eat foods such as salad greens, bread, cereal, nuts and deli meats.

Practice bathing and brushing your teeth with your uninjured arm. An electric toothbrush may help.

If your shower does not have one already, consider installing a grab bar to reduce the risk of slip-and-fall injuries.

You will also want to make all commonly used items, like cups and toothpaste, easily accessible.

Keep easy-to-wear clothing and accessories such as t-shirts, sweatpants and slip-on shoes at the front of your closet. Excessive reaching, bending or straining may delay your recovery and potentially a litter grabber pick up stick as you will drop stuff and your balance may be off due to cast (depends exactly what the op is)

Being proactive and thinking ahead can make the recovery process easier.

(apologies for duplications as just coping and pasting)

Guylian2019 · 11/03/2019 07:53

Thanks everybody.

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