People being inappropriate

[dustarr73]

My Bil is sending my spidey senses mad.
It seems to me hes over stepping bounderies towards me.
I just cant put my finger on it.Whether im imaging things or its really happening.

2 things have happened.My lights blew in the house so had no toilet light.He went to the loo,i wnet in after him.I didnt realise he was in there,

He sent me a message saying he wouldnt tell my partner i had seen his thing.I didnt see anything cause it was dark.But it was just the wording of the message.It just seemed weird.I told my dp anyway.

2nd time was just now.He asked whether the lights where ok[he fixed them for us].I said yes.And sent a gif.

He sent back a message about not putting things in my mouth.I just feel weird.

What was the gif you sent?

Just somebody getting a shock.From electricity

A message about not putting things in your mouth wtf?

Did the picture have someone putting something in their mouth?

Tell your partner before more stupid stuff happens and he spills all of it out of context and makes you look like the perv, or that you fancy him or something. He's weird.

No the message was not allowed to put things in my mouth.The gif he sent back was someone wagging their finger

OP. Don't ever go to a live comedy show. You'll have a heart attack.

@Confusedfornow .What????

I doubt the stand-up comic will be OP's brother in law, Confused. Also doubt they would be making personal remarks to her.

OP, sounds like he is trying his luck to see if you would be 'up' for anything. I would avoid him.

I think I'd show those messages to my DP with a 'Can you look at these messages? I think they're really weird and creepy'.

Even if DP doesn't think they're a problem (which I doubt - most guys aren't that daft), you've shown them to him straight away - people men don't send things like that without expecting it to be kept secret - and wanting to use them as leverage at a later date. By already showing them to your DP, any attempt to carry on with the threats has no chance of success in the way that keeping them a secret could do.

Extra - I see you've already told DP once (I really should be more careful about reading everything) - it's worth telling him/showing them to him again and saying they're really bugging you and you don't want to be around him again.