My husband and I have been together 8 years and married almost 5. When he goes for a night out it sometimes turns into 2 or 3 nights and and when he would come home he would be really twisted and hateful. When I was pregnant with my 6 y/o he came home and started punching holes in the doors. He’s threatened to hit me and has come close once or twice. To combat this I started staying away from home when he went out but then I would get the phone calls. This doesn’t happen that often. Maybe 2 or 3 times a year. When sober he couldn’t be more apologetic and sorry. I’m just so fed up living my life wondering when he’s going to drink next and what he will do. I have a son and daughter and would be horrified if my son treated a woman like that or if my daughter allowed herself to be treated like that. He’s quite manipulative and spoiled. Do you think I should leave him?