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Struggling to end a relationship

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chasegirl · 28/02/2019 17:30

I need some help and advice. I definitely want to end my current relationship but am really struggling to get the words out. It never seems to be the right time or something comes up. It feels like the words are stick in my throat.

He's a lovely man but I just don't love him. My dd11 thinks he us a nice man but doesn't want him to be my boyfriend. We don't live together but see each other about twice a week usually. I feel relieved when he goes.

I broke it off in the summer last year for 3 months but then had a serious illness and lost my Dad and ended up back with him.

Why can't I do this??

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SophiaLarsen · 28/02/2019 17:33

Probably because you are a nice person.

How about: 'XX I am sorry, you are a lovely person but I have decided I no longer want to be in a relationship with you.'

Get that first sentence out and then the rest will be dependent on any questions he has. The key is to stay strong and don't let him persuade you to stay with him.

chasegirl · 28/02/2019 19:15

I actually think he would be understanding he was in the summer at least. Its so hard to do it to him again

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hidinginthenightgarden · 28/02/2019 19:35

I think it is cruel actually to keep stringing him along. Just remember that you are trying to do what is right for him as well as you and your daughter. It is for the greater good! Tell him, or, by trying to be nice, you are actually being really mean!

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chasegirl · 28/02/2019 22:34

I agree. I need to set him free to find someone who will make him happy. I just can't seem to be able to do it

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