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My ex husband is scaring me

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Chickaletta16 · 27/02/2019 02:16

Hi all,

I feel so stupid as I let my ex h stay over for a few days whilst he sorted out somewhere to live. I have had enough. A few days has turned into weeks and tonight he has crossed all limits by seeking into.my bed.whilst I was asleep. I screamed at.him to bugger off into the spare room but he was shouting at me and banged the door shut so hard the whole house shook. I told.him to get out right now but he is refusing to leave. I have warned.him I will call the police but he is currently sulking in the spare room. I am sat here shaking like a leaf. I don't want to upset my parents by calling them as they are leaving for a holiday tmrw morning and I just want him out. I'm planning on calling the police if he doesn't leave the house (which is mine not his) tmrw morning but i need a handhold. I feel so stupid for letting him stay. He has been desperately trying to work his way back in and when he has realised it's not working has resorted to banging doors amd making me feel unsafe in my own home. Sad

OP posts:
Happynow001 · 27/02/2019 07:55

Well done OP - and Mumsnet!

TheMaddHugger · 27/02/2019 07:57

(((((Hugs)))) glad he's gone.

Who was he more scared of ? the Police or your Bro?

ColeHawlins · 27/02/2019 07:58

Glad to hear it Smile

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Steeve · 27/02/2019 08:00

Good to hear you're ok.

Chickaletta16 · 27/02/2019 08:01

He was.terrified of both. My brother is very high.up in the police and if he ever found out the truth of what ex h previously put.me through when we were married ex h would probably be.found in pieces in a ditch lol which I why I never.told.him.

I'm just glad it's all over.

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MrsElijahMikaelson1 · 27/02/2019 08:08
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marvellousnightforamooncup · 27/02/2019 08:22

Well done. What a complete arsehole he sounds.

Smotheroffive · 27/02/2019 14:59

Well done Chickalitta16 !!

I hope the experience has been another affirmation to believe in you and act to keep safe?

The police came through for you, but then I imagine your DBs presence would have helped a lot also!

I'm so glad to hear they moved him out, so they should. Please make sure ex doesn't have numbers either to contact you on. If you have a Sanctuary scheme near you they will do lock changes protect windows, letter box, etc. Look them up.

So glad you are safe and been proven right again. Smile Flowers

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