Have posted in Staffroom topic too but would appreciate any advice ...
DM (64) has been a SEN TA for nearly 25 years, she currently works full time, plus stays late 2 afternoons a week to run an after school club and attend a staff meeting.
DM had treatment for cancer last year - 2 operations on her leg and a long recovery process as she couldn't stand for long periods. She was signed off work for approx. 4 months and then returned to work after Easter doing just mornings until then end of summer term (on doctor's advice). She would spend afternoons at home with leg elevated which eased the swelling and pain - this will be with her for life apparently.
She spoke to her Head about returning to work full time in September '18 - the Head said if you want to continue part time then I can only offer 1-2-1 with a particular pupil. DM knows the pupil in question and didn't want this job as he is quite violent. Head said if DM didn't want that job then should would just have to return to her full time contracted hours.
DM didn't question this and has been back at work since beginning of school year - I think to the detriment of her health. She is exhausted in the evenings and at weekends, her leg aches, she is always run down, and she suffers from occasional swelling and pain.
I've said she needs to speak to someone at school about making some adjustments but I have no idea who and DM is petrified of losing her job as she is worried she won't find another as she's only working for another 2.5 years before retiring.
Ideally she would just do mornings but she said the Head is very anti flexible working - but I feel even if that weren't possible surely some other adjustments could be made like DM not having to do break time supervision (standing for 30 mins) or after school club?
I get the impression DM is intimidated by the Head and won't question things but I'm so worried it's making her unwell. Would really appreciate some advice about who she should speak to, and what she should say.
So sorry for long post!