Hi, I really need some help. My wife and I have been married for 15 years. She’s 7 years younger than me. Two weeks ago she went on a hen do with some new friends of ours and ended up kissing another man. I found out as she was being odd and over loving then I saw a message from the guy on Facebook and told her I’d messaged him to call her bluff. She owned up and said it was nothing more than a passionate drunk kiss and I messaged him after this which he confirmed. As did another person that was on the hen do. I’m devastated as we have three kids and whilst I know she’s a flirt and very good looking I never thought she’d go physical and I just can’t get it out of my mind. It’s ripping me apart. We are not arguing and I’ve tried to understand it but just don’t know if I can carry on with here even though she’s my absolute world. She’s sorry but I just can’t cope with this. Any advice or thought people have as to if I’m over reacting or anything I’m all ears. She’s assured me there are no fundamental issues and it was just a very drunk kiss but what am I to think? I’m so scarred.