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I woke up this morning to a dodgy message.

17 replies

Herja · 13/02/2019 07:37

I woke up this morning to a message from a long, long, ex boyfriend telling me he can't stop thinking about fucking me.

I have seen him ONCE in 10 years a month ago, to ask him to let someone my late boyfriend had once been best friends with, who I no longer had contact details for, that my boygriend had suddenly and unexpectedly died.

Who the fuck does that? And at 6 am! People are bisarre.

OP posts:
NabooThatsWho · 13/02/2019 07:40

He’s a creep. Ignore, block, delete.

Sonicknuckles · 13/02/2019 07:40

Yeah creepy

NataliaOsipova · 13/02/2019 07:41

Reply with “Sorry - who’s this from?” Grin

Hobbes8 · 13/02/2019 07:44

He sent you that message a month after your boyfriend died? Who the fuck does that?

I’m so sorry for your loss.

Spanglyprincess1 · 13/02/2019 07:44

My exh did this! It was bizarre and wrong. I threatened to tell his pregnant gf (ow) if he didn't pack it in and that worked.
In your case just ignore/block .

I'm sorry for.your loss X

Original poster
Herja · 13/02/2019 07:47

My boyfriend died two months ago. I spent a month trying to contact his old friend on my own before giving up and asking for help.

I went with "what the fuck is wrong with you?" and blocked. But I feel bloody gobsmacked. I can't understand what goes through some people's heads.

OP posts:
BoswellsBollocks · 13/02/2019 07:51

Ew what a cunt! Well done on blocking him.

I had one of my brother’s mates desperately try to hit on me at my mum’s funeral. He was doing this whole ‘I can’t stop looking at you’ creepy thing in my ear.

What the fuck is wrong with these people!

I’m sorry for your loss Flowers

TheMaddHugger · 13/02/2019 07:59

(((((Big Hugs)))))💐🌺🌼🌸💐

greybluegeometry · 13/02/2019 08:04

Well I can see why he is an Ex.

Mummyoflittledragon · 13/02/2019 08:09

You know to steer well clear of him. Only concerned with his feelings. Sorry for your loss Flowers.

StrangeLookingParasite · 13/02/2019 08:32

I had one of my brother’s mates desperately try to hit on me at my mum’s funeral. He was doing this whole ‘I can’t stop looking at you’ creepy thing in my ear.

At your mum's funeral! Good grief.

PyongyangKipperbang · 13/02/2019 08:57

His name doesnt begin with D by any chance does it?

Sounds like exactly the sort of thing my ex H would do, and did.

pictish · 13/02/2019 09:03

Good response imo. I hope he considers, even momentarily, what indeed the fuck is wrong with him. Glad you blocked straight away. Fuck off, creep.

I get sporadic messages from an old acquaintance whom dh and I both know, telling me he’s available for an affair. He’s a drunken arsehole and I show them to dh for the entertainment value.

Some people have no social awareness or filter. Sorry you got such an unwelcome message. Xx

pictish · 13/02/2019 09:05

And OP of course, I am so sorry to hear about your boyfriend. Xxx

winsinbin · 13/02/2019 09:45

What a slimy creep of an opportunistic grief vulture sending fishing fuck calls when you are vulnerable. Well done for blocking.

I’m very sorry for your loss Flowers

AdoraBell · 13/02/2019 09:58

Well done blocking him OP, and I’m sorry for your loss 💐

Boswells I would have told the mate to fuck off.

thegreatbeyond · 13/02/2019 10:04

Vile and utterly inappropriate. I'm so sorry for what has happened. I wish you happiness in rebuilding life after such a blow.

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