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Lobsterquadrille2 · 09/02/2019 03:18

Still in hospital and DD is sending alarming text messages:

I love you so much and the thought of something happening to you is really difficult for me. Xx

I don't know what do do. Please can someone help.

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scottiesheep · 09/02/2019 03:22

Hi OP I'm up.

Why are you in hospital? Poor dd, how old is she and who is she with?

Xmastummyhasgonebig · 09/02/2019 03:22

Why are you in hospital?

AmIMe · 09/02/2019 03:23

I’m sorry I haven’t read any of your threads. Can you give a bit of background?

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Lobsterquadrille2 · 09/02/2019 03:27

Thank you. So much. I'm with my 90 year old mother who had has a heart attack and now needs major surgery. DD is coming back from university but scared that the the cat, I or Grandma are dying.

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AmIMe · 09/02/2019 03:36

Aw I remember your thread now. Is DM still in ICU? How have you been holding up? It must be an awfully scary and upsetting time for you Flowers

I can’t say for sure what your dds thoughts were when she sent the message but I can say my dd has sent me similar during difficult times in our family with health scares. This is a sad time watching her mum be so worried about her mum. Imagining how that might feel upsets her and she’s just letting you know she loves you. I don’t think it’s alarming unless I’ve missed something in which case I apologise.

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Lobsterquadrille2 · 09/02/2019 03:36

Background is that my father died exactly a year ago she'd 93. My mother has ad a heart attack and is very confused. My daughter has interrupted her studies to come home,

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Singlenotsingle · 09/02/2019 03:46

You were on here yesterday, weren't you Lobster? Your mum's going to have major surgery at 93, is she? It's a major shock to the system. My dsf was 91 and had an amputation a couple of yeàrs ago. (I'm sorry to say he's no longer with us).

sashh · 09/02/2019 04:23

Hi OP

Glad your dd is on her way, send a text saying how much you love her too. Hope the op goes well for your dm.

Walnutwhipster · 09/02/2019 04:49

It's a difficult time for all of you. I hope your mum improves. They wouldn't be operating if there was little chance of success. I've been on life support in ICU twice and am testament to their amazing care. x

MyOtherProfile · 09/02/2019 04:53

That's so hard on you and your dd. Will she have anyone at home when she arrives? Dad or sibling?

DonkeyAtemyHomework · 09/02/2019 04:55

How old is your dd? Why are the messages alarming? She's upset, that's all.

MyOtherProfile · 09/02/2019 09:11

I guess OP means more that they were upsetting. Let's not be pedantic when OP is having a bit of a mare and is also concerned for her daughter.

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Lobsterquadrille2 · 10/02/2019 05:39

Not alarming. . I just hate distressing her. It's always been us.

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Lobsterquadrille2 · 10/02/2019 05:39

Just us.

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Lobsterquadrille2 · 10/02/2019 05:45

Nightmare all week. I have some someone staying with me who 's ex is inside for 22 years. And my minis dying. Not the best week.

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MyOtherProfile · 10/02/2019 11:34

So sorry. Sounds like a really rubbish time.

Grace212 · 10/02/2019 16:12

when will your DD arrive? I think you will feel better together.

how's your mum getting on?

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