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Relationship trouble

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Meabh1996 · 05/02/2019 16:37

Hi there im a married man with 3 young kids of 12 years me and my friends went away for the weekend and went to a pub anyway i met this girl i just thought it was just a normal chat but after awile i new it wasent it just the way we were looking in to each others eys it was just crazy it being a long time some one was looking at me that way felt so comfortable she tell me i smell realy nice and stuff so after the pub hoped in to a taxi back to her hotel and we had a very fast kiss and that was it i just felt there was something there i dont know what to do should i get in contact with her or just leave it be i cant stop thinking about her

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Bumblebee39 · 05/02/2019 16:56

*Hi there I'm a married man...
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Depends really, what do you think your wife will say when you tell her?

BigusBumus · 05/02/2019 17:01

What you felt was lust. We all feel like that now and again. Forget this other woman and the memory will fade. Perhaps try and arrange a babysitter and take your wife out for dinner or drinks and get that sparkle back.

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Meabh1996 · 05/02/2019 17:10

I dont think she would be too happy ya mabe you are right but she is stuck in my head hopefully it will go away she was just very similar to my wife because when i met my wife for the first time it just felt like the same spark was there

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DoneLikeAKipper · 05/02/2019 17:12

What precisely are you asking here?

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Meabh1996 · 05/02/2019 17:17

Will i get in contact with this girl or should i just leave it alone im my head is all over the place thinking about this girl

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DoneLikeAKipper · 05/02/2019 17:17

How old are you?

Kennehora · 05/02/2019 17:24

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Meabh1996 · 05/02/2019 17:55

Iam 39

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MyKingdomForBrie · 05/02/2019 17:57

Well no of course you shouldn't get in touch with her, you're married. Talk to your wife about it not mumsnet.

DoneLikeAKipper · 05/02/2019 18:01

Iam 39

Really? You sound awfully young. That’s not a compliment by the way.

I don’t think anyone should have to explain to a middle aged man why skirt chasing is not an ok thing to do when you’re supposedly married with children.

Whatever’s going on here, you need to grow up.

LostInLeics · 05/02/2019 18:06

This is Mumsnet. Don you really think that a load of Mums are going to tell you that its totally fine for you to cheat on the mother of your kids?

SauvingnonBlanketyBlanc · 05/02/2019 18:18

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GenJan · 05/02/2019 18:30

See blokes like you are probably half the reason why woman lack trust issues!
Take your wife out who's gave you three children! She's made the biggest commitment of her life to you by not just marrying you but giving you a chance to be a father!
Maybe start thinking about how to make your wife feel special rather than a girl you just met. But tbh you have just cheated on your wife by kissing someone else so to be fair damage is done, hope your wife bumps into someone who sweeps her off her feet while you sit there a ponder about a girl from the pub

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Meabh1996 · 05/02/2019 19:33

I feel realy bad for what i have done and ye are right i wont get in contact with her

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callieisdoingit · 05/02/2019 19:34

Is English not your first language?

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