Male relative, we're very close (about the same age, he and his DW are our DCs' godparents)
I would rather get something consumable, an experience, or something crafty/home made/recycled. Really, they have everything they need.
They don't live that close to us and last time they came to stay our DS (who has SEN) didn't cope that well so we can't really offer to host/do anything together.
He'd probably really like something foodie but I always get them something foodie for Christmas.