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Works WhatsApp with sexual message.

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JiltedJohnsJulie · 02/02/2019 23:14

We have a fairly new member of the team who's lovely, intelligent and more than capable. Wehave a department WhatsApp group which is a fairly new thing.

Tonight she posted a message asking a sexual question. Then posted later saying her BF had posted it while she was out of the room.

From what she's told me already, he's about to lose his job and seems to be doing everything he can to get her to lose hers. She has 2 young DC.

I just feel so sorry for her. It's all rather embarrassing. My DH can drive me to distraction, but he'd never do anything like this.

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DeathyMcDeathStarFace · 03/02/2019 01:56

You workmate needs to sign out of WhatsApp whenever she is not at the computer, whether for 1 minute or 1 hour.

SlimGin · 03/02/2019 02:23

What an odd immature thing to do. She needs to change her phone password and really think about whether she wants to be with a person like that.

MrsTerryPratcett · 03/02/2019 02:26

Why is he trying to lose her job for her? What a wanker. Or possibly abusive.

VWpurse · 03/02/2019 02:26

How do you sign out of WhatsApp?

Tinselwinesleep · 03/02/2019 02:31

What’s app is encrypted, all delete the message unless you want to snitch on her and tell her to leave the loser and/or remove her from the group

aurynne · 03/02/2019 02:58

What your workmate needs is to lose some weight. About 70 kg of useless prick approximately.

JiltedJohnsJulie · 03/02/2019 07:41

I think she needs to get rid too. She's had an emotionally abusive relationship with her ex, met this guy soon after and let him move in after he's given her a sob story.

They're both well educated, professionals in their 30's. That's the bit I don't get.

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VinnythePanda · 03/02/2019 22:13

She was probably intending to send it to someone else and put it in the group chat by mistake. Then concocted this story about her boyfriend sending to save face.

My dad used the ‘my friends sent that when I was out of the room’ excuse when he accidentally sent me a message meant for his girlfriend Envy

VinnythePanda · 03/02/2019 22:13

(Definitely not envy!!!)

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