Quite a long story so I’ll try and keep it brief. I have been with my husband 5 years but last summer I had asked him to move out as we were no longer getting on and living with him was becoming unbearable as he was quite mentally abusive. When he did move out I realised that I still loved him and that even though we had our problems that maybe living apart would be the best thing for us so we could work on our marriage but have some space to breathe . This was agreed by him and he was quite excited by it, however it all changed as soon as he moved in he started resenting me and was very verbally agressivse. We had a very up and down 3 months with one minute him saying he didn’t know if he loved me anymore and the next is being back to like we were at the beginning of our relationship. All the time we were still together and still sleeping together. There had been a woman on fb that liked his post and commmented very friendly things and I had brought it up with him and he said I was being stupid and that he would never cheat. Anyway I went round one morning to drop some post off and to cut a long story short he was there with her, gutted was an understatement he tried to tell me it was his landlady but it was definitely her. I was so cross and proceeded to tell her husband she is married with 3 kids. Now my husband is ignoring me I have texted him a few times and rang I did send a couple of nasty texts but a couple that just wanted some answers and that we need to sort out practical things our bank accounts etc I have also mentioned divorce. I suppose I just want to know why he’s ignoring me I would have expected him to be grovelling to me 😞