Heads a mess

[katiek96]

Hi all.

I write this looking to get everything off my chest and maybe some advise on how to go about things.

I have an 8 month son and my partner I have been with for 4 years. My partner is brilliant with my son can't do enough for him but things just aren't the same anymore, hardly no sex..lack of communication.. things are going downhill I can tell 

Anyway back to the point of this!!!

A few days ago I received a message from someone who I used to sleep with/see for a few years also. He stated he would love to meet and catch up as it's been forever. This has sent my mind into a spin and he keeps on texting. At one point in my life he is all i ever wanted but why choose now to text me after 5 years of nothing. He also has a girlfriend and wishes this to be kept a secret.

We have been flirting whilst texting and my mind is now in two half's... do I carry on and find out why he's messaging me or meet him?

My head is a mess. Gahhhhh 

You block and delete.
And remember you already have the opportunity to have it all....

If things are so awful with your husband then split. You will then be free to pursue other relationships.
If things aren’t that awful with your husband, then work on things with him.

Thankyou both.

It was always me chasing them years ago but he never wanted a relationship but now he's chasing. Unsure if he just wants to know me or get in my pants then bugger off.

Me and my partner just don't seem to be getting on like before my son was born, it's hard and I do love him but things are taking it's toll and now I'm second guessing if I do really want to be with him.