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Gave DS £20 to buy his own food & he chose...

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PrimeExample · 29/01/2019 06:26

He’s going through a growth spurt and needs feeding. Meals are ok but I was struggling for after school snacks. He’s 12, very small & grazes. He has never been able to eat huge meals.

He does that thing, “There’s nothing to eaaaaat” meaning there are no junky snacks. So I suggested I give him 20 quid & he can choose & add up his own snacks in his own trolley, as though we are flat sharing Grin He loved it!

Here’s what he picked... would yours go for similar? Other DCs were always disinterested in food. I asked him to pick snacks but he put in one meal, too:

Chicken chop suey ready meal
Sweet & sour chicken ready meal
Bag of lettuce
Grapes
Caramel squares
Mini doughnuts & caramel sauce
Pomegranate seeds
( he had these for dinner)

He has left loads of caramel things & doughnuts but also
1 can of Pringles
4 Pot Noodles - chicken & mushroom
Rice Crispie marshmallow squares
1 large pack Haribo things
Broccoli
One tin of mushy peas
Green olives
Cheese dipper things
Diet Dr Pepper

I have mixed feelings!

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MotherOfTheNoise · 29/01/2019 10:34

@PrimeExample we had a bowl of mushy peas with slow cooked ham hock last night with a big slice of homemade whole meal toast, would he eat something like that as a snack?

OutPinked · 29/01/2019 10:40

At 12 I would have chosen frozen pizzas, noodles, sweets, chocolate, crisps and fizzy drinks! At least he tried with some healthy options there.

PrimeExample · 29/01/2019 12:41

2018dramaqueen AH yes, we went through the dried/cured meats/jerky/salami phase! He won't touch them now. Maybe a good thing but Pepperamis were useful.

Clutterbugsmum Ha! Each child slightly different. He used to love oats. Porridge, cereal bars, flapjacks, it was great. Now he doesn't like them at all. I'm sure it's a phase.

Would he eat [http://allrecipes.co.uk/recipe/335/oat-biscuits.aspx Oat cookies] as healthier cookie. You could also add some dried fruit into them as well.

Thanks, mrsm43s My teens are the same, but this was a one-off to see what he enjoys. He has plenty of good stuff, too, and I tend not to put any ban on any foods - don't want to give them hang-ups later on. He most certainly didn't put in the healthy things to appease me as I don't care if he chooses them or not! He ate all the lettuce last night and says he has "plans for the broccoli" (think he means soup but doesn't know how to make it, yet). I think he may well heat up his own mushy peas, but I'm happy to do them for him, if it's what floats his boat Grin I think he had them at school and enjoyed them there.

His friends are varied. Some of the parents control and restrict, others do let them have a free reign. I know this because he regularly has Mountain Dew Shock at his pal's house. Equally, they often make themselves scrambled eggs, toast, beans, etc. as you mention, so I don't mind him having a bit of junky stuff every now and then. He's a growing boy and has plenty of healthy stuff in his meals.

MotherOfTheNoise I love the sound of peas and ham hock! He doesn't like ham but he LOVES soup. You've reminded me! I will defrost a few batches later and he can heat himself those in the microwave.

OutPinked I would have spent it all on Marathon bars Grin OMG I loved them and would spend all my lunch money on them. Tsk tsk tsk! Yes, I was pleased he put the healthy stuff in - it was genuine, too, he does like fruit & veg and will tuck in as well as having the crap stuff.

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DrCoconut · 29/01/2019 18:26

If I gave my DS £20 for food he'd hit just eat 🙄

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