If been with my partner for 10yrs. I have a small cleaning buisness, an a 14yr old son with asd. i stay at his every night with my son. I pay 50pw rent. I do all the cleaning cooking laundry. I get up at 5am to make his packed lunch an coffee. I feel like a maid not a partner. I dnt have sex with him anymore I just don't like it. When I tell him am tired an need help. He says he will help but never does. If we argue he tells me I dnt live with him. If that's the case why do i pay rent? If we go out on a weekend I pay for half of everythink. He goes out every Friday an sunday, if i complain he says am jealous. I'm not jealous I'm tierd. I worked out his monthly outgoings on the house an it comes to 216£. As his mortgage is 6£pm. I'm not ugly an im 21yrs younger than him. Is he using me or am I being unreasonable? I'm actually writing this with tears strolling down my face. Xxxx