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People who you’ve only ever spoken a few times , but you wonder about (possible trigger)

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nervousbreakdown · 26/01/2019 14:33

You know when you talk to someone briefly do you ever find yourself wondering years later if things turned out alright for them ? I used to be a member of a chat forum for teens and I vividly remember speaking to one lass on MSN for a while . She messaged me on me afternoon in a panic saying she’d had a termination the day before and she couldn’t cope . I think I was 16 or so and remember we spoke for a long time that day despite having never actually met . She would be around 30 by now and I often wonder how things turned out for her now .

I also remember meeting a child through a summer school event , at around the same age , think I was 16 and she was younger , she had recently been fostered and was told she’d be moving on again very soon . I remember she spent the whole day with me as she had no friends . I seem to remember she was unable to read . She would be in her mid twenties now - I still have a photo of her somewhere that was taken by the school . Tried to find her on Facebook but as we’d only spoken for two days I highly doubt she will remember me at all . That and I imagine her name has probably been changed . I really hope she found a family that cared for her and that she’s doing well now .

Same with pen pals I had as a child , people you meet on holiday or classmates that left school - I often wonder what happens to people next , if they are happy , if they have children etc .

Just wondering if anyone has similar stories ... funny to think you can meet someone and only know them for a matter of hours or even less and never quite forget them .

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nervousbreakdown · 26/01/2019 14:33

Damn I should have changed my username , 😂

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shitwithsugaron · 26/01/2019 14:36

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4strings · 26/01/2019 15:11

Yes. When dd2 was about 18 mo, she ended up in hospital for a few days. Got chatting to a mum whose son was around 5 and who was really rather ill with Kawasaki Disease. He’d turned s corner but was still nowhere near well. I went to say bye to her when dd was discharged but she was sitting by his bed looking so, so worried so I didn’t want to intrude.

His name began with R and I often wonder how his recovery went.

Mumberjack · 26/01/2019 16:29

When I was in having a gynae procedure a few years back I got speaking to a girl in the next bed while we waited to go to theatre. She was only mid 20s but had been trying to conceive for 5 years. She works at a restaurant close to us and I’ve seen her a few times since (not to speak to, I just recognised her!) and hope that she did manage to conceive.

Elllicam · 26/01/2019 16:32

When my second son was in hospital with bronchiolitis as a baby there was another baby across from him. His granny would sing you are my sunshine to him and rock him. I often wonder how he got on.

HildaZelda · 26/01/2019 16:37

I had a sort of 'one that got away'. It was 20 years ago now, but I do wonder what happened to him sometimes. I did have a nose on Facebook but couldn't find him.

PegLegAntoine · 26/01/2019 16:39

I went to a linkin park gig once where we got there crazy early to wait outside Wembley, and there were a few other teens there. One was actually there for the supporting act... Lostprophets.

She was early teens but travelled the country alone to see all their gigs, they actually got her up on stage as soon as they spotted her, knew her name etc.

Since the whole thing about Ian Watkins came out, I have always wondered if she was one of the fans who were so in his thrall they let him abuse their babies. She would be about the right age I think.

Aprilshowersarecomingsoon · 26/01/2019 16:40

Once answered my phone to a wrong number caller, she was ringing a relative to tell them her ddog needed an op , we chatted for a while - she sounded lovely!! Often wonder if her ddog was OK!
Would love a nice elderly relative tbh!

PegLegAntoine · 26/01/2019 16:40

Or if not, how she has coped with finding out that her absolute idol was capable of these things.

VictoriaBun · 26/01/2019 16:46

I've spoken to random people before ( like out shopping etc ) and they have come across as lovely, and I've thought I bet if we became friends we'd get on great.
I have a few ex teenage boyfriends from years ago I've tried to find on Facebook to see what became of them but never found.

Frouby · 26/01/2019 16:57

A lady and her baby who were in the opposite hospital bed when I had dd. She was from Zimbabwe and hadn't been in the UK for long, and had a terrible, terrible time of it giving birth to her 11lb gorgeous baby boy.

The only people that came to visit her was her partner and her vicar. She was very distressed by about day 3 (I had a c section and was in 6 days) as she was struggling to breastfeed and the nurses wanted to use formula but she was crying because she couldn't afford formula.

I look at dd (now 14) and wonder how the little boy who shares her birthday got on and hope his mum is OK too. I had a huge bunch of flowers sent by work and when I left (she had to stay in longer due to a really nasty tear, then an infection I think) I left them with her as I didn't have a vase big enough at home. My mum also bought a few babygrows in 0-3 months and gave them her, saying that she had got them for my baby but they wouldn't fit for ages as dd was so dinky.

AndNoneForGretchenWieners · 26/01/2019 17:05

I had a boyfriend when I was 16 who was a bit older than me (22) and was a bad lad - he had a security job minding a car dealership and arranged for friends to steal cars. I didn't know any of this until the police phoned to confirm his alibi, I naively told the truth that I had been at home with my parents and he had been at work. I never heard from him after that and wonder what happened to him - he was my first boyfriend and first kiss, and was gorgeous.

As a mixed up teen I took an overdose and ended up in hospital for a few nights. I made friends with a boy my age on the ward, and neither of us could sleep so we went for a walk around the hospital in the early hours, and talked all night. He was in with complications to do with his asthma. I never saw him again, but we shared so many secrets that night. There was no attraction there at all, we just clicked.

ballsdeep · 26/01/2019 17:07

When I was in hospital and pregnant, there was a lady next to me who was losing water and was only 27 weeks pregnant. Her husband and child used to visit her every day. One day during routine checks they couldn't find a heart beat. They took her to a private scanning room and I never saw her again as I went into labour. I often wonder what happened to her.

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