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Rude neighbours

19 replies

honestlynotagain · 20/01/2019 18:21

So, I sent a package before Christmas. The person I was sending it to gave me an incorrect address so it got stuck in the Royal Mail system and I assumed was on its way back to me (I assumed this becuase the only info RM could give on its bloody website was "we've got your item" for 20 days.)
Anyway, I had been checking the tracking info every now and then and checked it last night and to my surprise it had been signed for!
It tooke me a few minutes to work out that the postie had sent it the wrong house (same street name but with different endings, we are a close they are a street.) Their garden backs onto my house. I often have to redirect couriers to their house and I've even taken a parcel in for them once.
So I went round yesterday evening a politely asked if a parcel had been signed for, showed the reciept and said who had signed for it and that my name and adress would be clearly written on the box. The man said he couldn't see anything but to come back in the morning.
So I did pop round. They had opened the box, opened all the presents inside, eaten the christmas chocolate inside, but kindly leftme the wrappers and stolen the christmas card and personal letters which had 20 quid inside (I know, never send cash in the post but I couldn't find my cheque book after just moving house- lesson learnt!)
All I can think is, they must have needed that money much more than the person I was sending it to needed it.
I was quite upset and my DH has offered to go round any say something but I'm wondering if that's a bad idea. Rude bloody neighbours.

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IHeartMarmiteToast · 20/01/2019 18:38

I find it hard to believe that you didn't you say something!!!

honestlynotagain · 20/01/2019 18:41

I did! He just shrugged and said, thought it was for us. Didn't want to stand around arguing on his doorstep. He wasn't very pleasant.

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ChrisjenAvasarala · 20/01/2019 18:41

Eh, what did you say? You know it had money in it... did you ask for the money back?

I don't understand why you'd do nothing. Send your husband round, though I never thought I'd say that. You're grown up enough to do it yourself.

HotSauceCommittee · 20/01/2019 18:43

Tell the police. They aren’t just rude, they are thieves.

honestlynotagain · 20/01/2019 18:48

I will go round again. DH thinks we should let it go!

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VanillaSauce · 20/01/2019 18:55

I wouldn't say they're rude, I'd say they're thieves.

Troels · 20/01/2019 18:58

Thieving cheeky feckers, go round with a list of what was in the parcel and ask for it all back. I'd let Dh come with me if wanted too.

mumsastudent · 20/01/2019 19:01

so post office delivered it to wrong place & the people opened it & stole from it - go to post office & ask them first tell them what the neighbour has done it is a prosecutable offence

FiggyFudgePot · 20/01/2019 19:07

Rude? It's theft.

Celebelly · 20/01/2019 19:08

Wtf! What did they say when you went back? 'We ate all the chocolates and stole your money'?

DiaryofWimpyMumm · 20/01/2019 19:41

I have this problem with my address. Thankfully the people in the other house seem quite honest. Thieving sods!!

Bloodybridget · 20/01/2019 19:48

When he said "thought they were for us", didn't you want to reply " wouldn't the parcel have been addressed to you in that case?"?

CoraPirbright · 20/01/2019 20:22

“Thought they were for us”
“Well clearly it wasn’t now please reimburse the money you too or else I will have to involve the police”

honestlynotagain · 20/01/2019 20:22

They aren't very nice people. I can't push them to be honest, neither do I want to get into an argument with them. I feel like I posted in aibu!!

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honestlynotagain · 20/01/2019 20:25

I just wanted to grumble about it (I'll skulk back to my hole now)

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VinoEsmeralda · 20/01/2019 20:29

We had something similar and I dropped a parcel off what was for them. He looked surprised and went red when I said 'wouldn't you do the same, it's a kind thing to do. People make mistakes.....

Thought about it an realized we had a few parcels and letters missing over the years....

Next time it happened again I kept the parcel for two weeks. They didn't collect it, we opened it and it was a signature posh box of chocolates, Ltd edition. T was amazing but felt guilty eating it!

Bloodybridget · 21/01/2019 18:32

Aw honestlynotagain sorry, I certainly didn't want to make you feel as though you'd been silly! I quite understand there are people you just don't want to argue with. Console yourself with the thought that they can't have nice happy lives if they'd do something like that.

wowfudge · 21/01/2019 18:49

Contact RM and tell them it was misdelivered. Some Royal Mail services provide insurance for money sent via them too. But I would have taken the box from them and demanded my money back from them too.

user1493423934 · 23/01/2019 04:07

Send a parcel of your own to them . . . with nice home made chocolates - made from laxative chocolate!

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