Sadly I got the news yesterday at my 12+3 week scan my baby stopped developing at 4 weeks. I have had no bleeding, no cramps and no sign of miscarriage. I am going back in 1 week to confirm at another scan and have a medically induced miscarriage. I had a feeling if dread going to the scan as I felt something was not right and I remember seeing the empty screen as she scanned me. I did not cry as something deep inside me already knew. I am more sad because my mum is sick and I don’t get the joy of making her a grandma. I was trapped in an emotionally abusivd relationship. He walked out just before I found the baby was gone and didn’t come back to check on me he just left me at the hospital. We did not live together and he’s blocked me and not messaged me since. After weeks of hell I almost feel relieved it is over and it’s as if baby knew they would be safer in heavens arms. I came and had a slight bleed that stopped it’s as if my body wanted to hear there was nothing there before it let go. But I am just confused why my body has not miscarried naturally. The baby passed away 8 weeks ago and they are still inside me is this not dangerous? I have been told this will likely never happen again but it has put the fear of god in to me that when I meet someone good this will happen again. 