I am sat in tears again, ex h is vile and was before i left, emotional abuse, verbal abuse, threatening behaviour, arested for harassment and the list goes on.
I have nisci part of divorce, and dd 14 lives with me.
He has new fiancee and spends most of his time with her, he is refusing to buy me out or sell marital home and has only just started paying csa after months of trying due to him not sending correct stuff in and them having to go to employer and hmrc.
Please can someone exp lain or tell me what i need to do to have my share of marital home. And also please tell me what child maintenance is for as he is constantly saying to dd its for whatever she wants not thats its for essential living cists such as clothing, school stuff and shoes etc.
My dd is vile to me and rings her dad everytime i say its not for willy nilly things, he then sides with her and she goes against me.
I should say he is totally different if his new girlfriend is in earshot, she has no idea how he treats me or what happened previously.
She has a dd thats 4 and ex h spends more time with them than his own dd, my dd can't see how he fobs her off and lies his way out of a situation.
I have had to have cbt due to all that has happened over last 4 years and my anxiety levels are still high. I work two nights as a hca so am hardly getting any sleep as can't seem to sleep.
Both of us have new partners and my new man is lovely, completely different to ex h.
Can anyone explain sense and reason as to what i do regarding ex h, house, dd and csa.