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How do you stop the what ifs??

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ttrwe · 11/01/2019 21:13

I have one dc. I have thought for a few years that I don't want another as it's been hard and we have no support . Now dc is getting to an age where he is independent and I feel like I've made a big mistake and I can manage it and dc should have a sibling and I want to experience motherhood again and we should try. But I am too old 42 and I'm scared I am acting on last chance hormones. I swear I can feel my ovaries taunting me every month going we are getting old you need to really be absolutely sure that you are right on this!

How do you stop the what ifs

I'm sure the what ifs happen with those with bigger families too but with just one it seems really important!

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ttrwe · 12/01/2019 18:49

Hopeful bump

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Didiusfalco · 12/01/2019 18:53

I think based on what you’ve put you should give it a shot. I think the ‘what ifs’ will be a lot easier to quiet if you have tried and then it doesn’t happen. I know that’s not what you asked, but it seems clear from your post that is what you want to do.

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