I’ve just become a single nanan my husband can’t cope Anymore

[Sarah0011111]

Me N my husband became guardians of our grandaughter 12 month ago due to my daughter being in a violet relationship. He has been fantastic with her but as dropped the bombshell 12month on that he doesn’t love me anymore and that it has all stemmed from my daughter. My grandaughter is my world x

I’m so very sorry to hear this. Firstly it’s amazing that you’ve given your granddaughter security, and taken her out of the situation. I do hope your daughter is able to get out of that kind of relationship.

Your husband is probably just very overwhelmed and is maybe confusing not loving you to some anger he has about the situation. It can make people feel very different when there’s a lot of stress.

Have you maybe tried going to see a relationship therapist together? Or simply talking honestly and openly? I’m sure there’s resolution but it may take some work. Don’t give up hope just yet.

He said he loves me but he doesn’t want to end up resenting me in the next 10 or 20 years. He said in the future he may have may the biggest mistake and may have to ask for forgiveness. It’s very hard and very very heartbreaking but I now have to have full focus on my grandchild. He’s not one for counselling but as said he feels very unhappy and is broken inside too.

Is it his actual daughter/grandchild as well?