Hi all
I will try to be as concise as possible without leaving any information out.
This has been playing on my mind.
My mum has worked for a local council run facility for over 25 years. It's not my local one but all of the staff know each other as it's quite a small borough.
I took out a gym membership for my 15yr old ds at the beginning of last year for our local leisure centre.
There were problems from the start with the finance company taking the amount out on wrong dates, taking the wrong amount etc and towards the summer I got into a financial mess and missed a few payments so ds didn't go back from around September.
I made a few token payments to reduce the debt and it currently stands at just under £70.
I have bi polar and other MH issues and massively struggle handling financial affairs. I explained this to the finance company who then passed the debt back to my local centre who to be fair have been very nice about it and said I can pay it off and then ds can go back on a "pay monthly" plan.
My ex mil also works at my mums centre and I had a phone call a few months ago from ds's dad asking why the gym membership was in arrears. He said that his mum had been at work and one of the bosses had pulled my mum up at work in the small reception office where they were both on shift and told her that I owed X amount. This happened several times over a few months.
I hadn't spoken to my mum for a few months and recently made contact with her and she told me the same. She told the manager that it was nothing to do with her, rightly so and that I'm a 40 something year old woman.
I feel that my finances shouldn't have been discussed to my mum and with ex mil in the same room even though I have a good relationship with her too, isn't it a breach of the new data protection laws?
I obviously don't want to make things difficult for my mum or ex mil but I am annoyed that this has happened.
Any thoughts as to what I should do please?
Thanks if you've got this far. I also have severe anxiety and OCD and am wondering if I'm making too much of it in my head.