People on MN don't half fib about how much they give their kids.
Just why do people post such vitriolic comments? Why does it bother you how much money people might give their kids?
FevertreeLight - ignore all the snidey digs, I am not sure why others feel they need to make them. If we include ISA contributions, my DS would be getting more than £1000/mth at uni.
He is currently on a placement year, but when at uni, we topped up his minimum loan for halls/house fees, £1400 first year, much less 2nd yr (cheap northern city) then gave him a monthly allowance for living - £300 first year and £350 second year.
He doesn’t get any of that this year, he is earning and paying his way, saving the excess after bills and fun money to fund some travelling after uni.
But we do pay a decent amount into his and DD ISA too, despite them also having an inheritance to drip feed in - purely because our assets exceed IHT limits so we might as well drip feed some to them now, via their ISA, ready for eventual house purchase.
Neither of my kids are lazy or bad with money, quite the opposite really. Both work hard (DD on a gap year in a retail job, had some long shifts over Xmas, DS has also had retail jobs pre and during uni) and are careful with money. However, like FevertreeLight, we still treat them to holidays and at birthday and Xmas, simply because we can - if others on MN don’t believe me, then that’s their problem.
Shock horror, there are some on MN that also pay full uni fees, wonder if you think they are fibbing too RevokeRemainReform? The only reason we are not doing that upfront is because DD may not go.