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Party bag for day out?

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Ana86 · 02/01/2019 11:47

It's my daughter's 10th birthday in a couple of weeks and we are taking her and two friends for a (pricey!) day out instead of a party. Do you think they'd expect party bags for a day out? I don't mind doing them if they do but we're already spending quite a bit on tickets, food etc. We've always done big class parties before so this is new territory and I'm not sure on the expectations.

Thanks!

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PoptartPoptart · 02/01/2019 12:27

I don’t think party bags are necessary in these circumstances.
They are 10 years old, plus it’s not a traditional ‘party’ it’s a lovely day out.

UnicornMadeOfPinkGlitter · 02/01/2019 12:29

When we’ve taken friends for a day out I usually give them a budget in the gift shop. Especially as my children would normally have birthday money to spend.

Eg at the science museum, although I had paid for the train and lunch I gave each child up to £10. One constantly asked for things well over budget and one was happy with a pencil and eraser and offered the rest of her budget to the one moaning that £10 wasn’t enough!! Guess which child got invited to the next years birthday trip.

Ana86 · 02/01/2019 14:36

Thanks! That's really reassuring. The trip is to the Harry Potter studios so I fear a trip to the gift shop might bankrupt me!

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Daddypigssatnav · 02/01/2019 15:39

There is a lot of Harry Potter merchandise in places like Tesco at the moment. You could get a couple of Harry Potter notebooks/pencil cases/stationery sets or whatever from there to give out. It would be far cheaper than the gift shop at the studios, but the party people would still get a HP gift.

PoptartPoptart · 02/01/2019 15:46

The shop at the Warner Bros Harry Potter studios will indeed bankrupt you op! Especially if there are 3 of them!
As a pp said, you can get reasonably priced HP stuff in supermarkets, and Primark always have lots of HP merchandise.

MrsRubyMonday · 02/01/2019 19:08

I wouldn't do a party bag as such but if it requires a bit of a drive or train I would put together a bag for them with activities to keep them busy, a homemade list of things to spot and some crosswords or colouring maybe? Can be printed off the internet. And some sweets probably. Have fun, it's amazing!

Phillipa12 · 02/01/2019 19:32

For my sons 10th birthday i gave his 3 friends a tub of haribo each, they were delighted!

Fresh01 · 02/01/2019 19:36

We have done a box of Maltesers from Poundland for that age group before. They loved having their own box.

Overseasmom100 · 02/01/2019 19:36

I would nust give a slice of birthday cake to take home

BikeRunSki · 02/01/2019 19:40

Good grief! HP tickets cost a bomb! I wouldn't expect a party bag too.Maybe something HP themed from somewhere cheaper (The Works had loads of bits in before Christmas) as a token of the day out, but not more than £3-4 a head.

Might be worth suggesting to parents that their DC might want to bring their pocket money life savings

planespotting · 02/01/2019 20:00

OP I took myDH there 😅 for his birthday
Could you maybe but a HP plain notebook and a pencil or something for them to write cool facts around the studio? Or drawings?
Cheapish bag of notebook, pencil and stickers?
They can also print 5/10 pics from the trip and stick the, down?

I think there is a challenge to spot all the snitches so they can use the notebook for that

planespotting · 02/01/2019 20:02

Primark had lots of bits too!

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