Anyone not have the NYE they hoped for?

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We had fireworks alright but not outside! I knew letting DD stay up was a mistake. Argumentative doesn’t cover it! Unfortunately I got drawn in & DH had enough & went to bed just after Big Ben ( he went up at 11.50 but I persuaded him to come down & see in 2019). She just affects me so so much! Earlier was nice - steak dinner then we watched Mamma Mia 2 on dvd. But as I said, DD should definitely have gone to bed way before midnight

I told someone I loved them, asked for a response after silence for 2 days and basically got a "too busy for you" message, does that count? Resolution: that person can fuck off to the back of fuck and then some.

Me and DP were in different rooms and he is now sleeping on the couch.

2 poorly children, but he was an arsehole!!

well I basically cried in the new year. kids tweens and won't go to bed early but can't quite manage to stay up either. I'm a lp and just split up with my bf of almost a year also. A very promising relationship but many red flags made me end it. now feeling very low that wont be able to find someone like him again.

I'm happy but, no, it wasn't the NYE of my dreams.

In my head, I was going to be sharing a drink with my best friend and a kiss with the lovliest man I know.

The former's left the country for good and the latter doesn't know how I feel about him because I'm too chicken to tell him.

It's still alright, though, and it will be for you, OP.

Happy 2019. 🥂

Suspected my partner of having an affair for a while, he left at lunch time to get his car washed and hasn't returned home, theres a hotel booked on his online banking while I'm sat at home with our baby, happy new year!

Oh no Bec what a shit 😡

Not exactly the new year I had planned x

Had MIL staying with us since Saturday. She’s up with us half awake, half asleep and the two DC 13 and 15 all squashed up on couch. Frowned on for drinking by MIL. Finally mil decides to go to bed 20
mins ago so we get kids to go to bed. Looking forward to half an hour cuddling up to DH but he accidentally turns volume up on TV with Jools on way too loud (DD sleeping in front room, MIL above us) instead of turning it down. I snap at him because of his slow reaction, he snaps back, I swore at him now not speaking. Great start to NY.

Oh god Bec, do you have anyone you can talk to in real life x

I'm so sorry Bec, that's shit!

Some of these make mine less shit, but I'm dealing with DS going through 4 month sleep regression and also have been running to the loo with a dodgy tum since 6pm.

I was hoping to stay in with a takeaway and film on tv. Was talked into going out to a friends house and ended up having a really great night.

So sorry for those that have had a bad night. If it makes it any better I’ve had the worst 18 months of my life and I’m not sure how to make things better. I’m hoping 2019 can’t be any worse than 2017 or 2018.

Happy new year to us all x

Yep I took my kids away for a mini break to celebrate the new year as they usually love that. Two out of the three have autism and ALL three had major meltdowns today, fine yesterday, probably fine tomorrow but the night I really hoped they would do well and it went wrong. (Not their fault I know and not blaming them just gutted)

yes we just found out that DC3 Who I am pregnant with has major abnormalities and I'm having a termination in a week. Couldn't settle the kids until 11 tonight. DP and I both have a stinking cold.

Had friends over for a small party, they’ve not long left. Just went to give newish DP a kiss now we’re finally alone - and he turned his head away so I ended up kissing his cheek. WTF is that about?

I was sick on Christmas Day and missed out on my favourite day of the year, so dh got fireworks/ nice food/ champagne for tonight so I could have a nice evening at home with him and dc. Cue me vomiting from 8.30-11.30 then collapsing into bed. No NYE for me this year, and I think the dc were put to bed before midnight too.

Oh bloody hell @sylvanian and @bec
What a shit NYE for you. I’m sorry you’re both having such a crappy time xxx

I ate wheat yes I enjoyed it but I wish I hadn't as I'm now welded to the loo (not right now) and people think I'm on a "faddy diet" I ate kfc gravy not even the chicken just the GRAVY did this to myself no one else to blame

I'm also battling a five year old with Sen he left his velicorapter at his dad's who apparently "can't find it" he won't let me replace it because santa bought it for him he wants HIS velicorapter and he still won't sleep

Had a lovely family Christmas planned. Then mum passed away in mid Dec. Not completely unexpected (old and infirm)but a shock still. OK so at least we can have dad over...but no, he got taken in to hospital on Xmas Eve. Spent the whole of Christmas thinking he was leaving us. He is still hanging on but unresponsive.

I don't set expectations. It's just a countdown. New year isn't an occasion for me. Christmas has literally just happened, that's enough organised 'fun' for one month.

I just slept through it, easiest way! But god, big hugs and to all of you! Sorry you’re going through these awful things and I really hope life improves for you.

howmanysleeps could you be pregnant? That sounds miserable! And big hugs plus 💐to everyone going through such tough times xxx