I've name changed for obvious reasons. I'm feeling confused. I will admit for the last two months I've not wanted sex, mixture of tired, stressed a cold and d&v. The lack of sex has caused some problems with dp who has a high sex drive but I explained and thought he understood. This morning I woke up more thaN once to him trying to have sex. I told him no I was stilll waking up and could hear the kids (they can't get in are room because of a stair gate). He wouldn't stop touching me and in the end I laid there Just wanting it to be over. What I don't understand is he went down on me and I orgasmed, surely if I didn't want it it wouldn't of happened. He's acting like everything is fine but i feel awful