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DD and her magical disappearing tummy bug

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confusedandemployed · 23/12/2018 18:42

DD and I were due to go to the panto this evening. She asked me this morning if we really had to go (it's Beauty and the Beast and she was scared in the film). I said yes, I've bought tickets and pantos are really not scary, she will love it. For context, she's nearly 6. Not a teeny tiny.

About 2.30 she starts complaining of a bad belly. Goes to the loo but says she's still poorly. No change in an hour, then suddenly she says she feels sick. She looks absolutely grey so I don't doubt her. I cancel panto, £30 down the drain.

Over the next 2hrs she really makes a remarkable recovery. Turns out the whole thing was a big lie to get out of going to the panto.

I have emetophobia so I was going a little insane when she said she felt sick. She went deathly white, and I thought bugger, a Christmas norovirus bug.

I'm so relieved she's not ill I haven't really told her off, although she's not getting any bedtime TV. I've also told her that I'll never fall for that little trick again, which is true. She has comprehensively done her chips on that front.

I kid you not though, the kid would have been Oscar nominated.

Anyone fancy reassuring me that I'm not the only mug in town? 😆

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FlossieTeacakesFurCoat18 · 23/12/2018 18:49

Why did you book a panto that you could have predicted she would be afraid of? She got out of it the only way she could at that age Confused

confusedandemployed · 23/12/2018 18:50

Because she didn't tell me she was scared in the film until last week? She saw the film over a year ago. Tickets were booked in November.

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confusedandemployed · 23/12/2018 18:52

And if I think about it, she wasn't scared in the cinema, nor afterwards. She just said she was, a year after the event.

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Witchend · 23/12/2018 18:52

Hate to tell you I have a teen who still can do that. She's been able to get round the medical both at her current school and primary. Both have a reputation of never sending anyone home.
She looks deathly white and so ill... Until she's in the car on the way home.Hmm

Oddsocksandmeatballs · 23/12/2018 18:55

Maybe the anxiety genuinely made her feel unwell? She may not be a teeny tiny but she's not exactly a grown up girl either.

sackrifice · 23/12/2018 18:58

So did you make her spend the afternoon and evening in bed being that she was so ill? No toys, no fun, no games?

Littlebird88 · 23/12/2018 18:58

fellow emmetophobe here! I get you.
I once read an article about how norovirus spread after a kid vomited at a panto and it's terrified me
so id say lucky escape .

Ikeameatballs · 23/12/2018 18:58

Surely it was anxiety that made her both look and feel ill?

confusedandemployed · 23/12/2018 18:59

I did indeed. She's in bed a good hour earlier than normal too. I think she's appreciating the mixed blessing her acting success has brought.

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confusedandemployed · 23/12/2018 19:01

Surely it was anxiety that made her both look and feel ill?

Well of course it could have been. But the instantaneous recovery rather points to imaginary, rather than psychosomatic symptoms.

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Bunnybigears · 23/12/2018 19:10

If she actually looked grey then she must be a master faker.

Eponymous · 23/12/2018 19:10

Not really. As soon as the prospect of going is gone, the anxiety goes and the the symptoms go. It's pretty quick.

confusedandemployed · 23/12/2018 19:11

Eponymous Hmm well if I'm honest I could always manage that trick too. I could even make myself go clammy.

I genuinely think she just faked it. When I asked her she came straight out and admitted it, she wasn't anxious. She just didn't want to go out.

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Fairylea · 23/12/2018 19:17

You sound a bit harsh op.

She was anxious about it scaring her, whether the tummy hurting her or not was actually true it doesn’t really matter. She was clearly feeling worried about it.

I wouldn’t have punished her by telling her off or preventing her watching tv.

TellerTuesday4EVA · 23/12/2018 19:21

Tbh I don't get this.... if DD (6 also) had asked me if we really had to go & explained why she didn't want to I might of tried a bit of cajoling but if she still hadn't wanted to go I wouldn't of made her

Bluewatersurf · 23/12/2018 19:37

She's was probably looking peaky from the nerves and worried about being scarsd? I've had moments as an adult where the thought of doing something has made me feel and look sick but when I've been able to get out of it the relief is almost instant!

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