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So embarrassed, please tell me it isn't as bad as I think!

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ScienceIsTruth · 21/12/2018 19:19

So, I've got workmen in atm, and the last one just left for the day. I gave them each a card and small gift when they left, and as this guy has really helped us out at the last moment, I'd also put a bonus in his card.

Now for the embarrassing bit:
We were stood talking and he'd thanked me for the card, etc, and then he leaned over me with his arm out like he was going on for a hug (he's a lot taller than I am), and although I'm not really a hugger I didn't want to be rude, so I put my arms out to hug him back, and he said "Oh, are we're doing cuddles, why not, it's Christmas!" And we hugged a bit awkwardly.

As soon as he said "oh!", I realised he was actually just leaning past me and around the corner to wave goodbye to my dc Blush, but by then it was too late so we both went through with the hug.

Now I'm dying of embarrassment and he'll be back to finish next week, so I'll have to face him again.

I have to emigrate, don't I?

I feel really stupid, and don't want to have given him the wrong idea. He now probably thinks I'm weird!

I have Aspergers, but I haven't misread a situation that badly for a very long time.

It gave my dc a laugh though.

How do I deal with this?? I have to start hugging everyone, don't I? Postman, bin men,etc...... Or disappear off the face of the earth (that's my preferred option).

Please take my mind off this or tell me it isn't so bad. ShockGrin

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ScienceIsTruth · 21/12/2018 19:46

Glad I've cheered you up, ernjas and co. Call it my Christmas gift to you Xmas Grin

Anyone else done something worse?(please, lol).

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Florrieboo · 21/12/2018 19:47

I am giggling imagining it and also know that it could so easily be something I would do. So funny. Don't worry he will see the funny side as well.

ScienceIsTruth · 21/12/2018 19:50

thanks for that, flapjackfairy. You're right, that makes mine seem like nothing!!!

Lol, poor you! It made me laugh, but I think I'd have had to climb out the window and run away if it had happened to me. I'm in awe, that you managed to brazen it out!!

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BlueJay1 · 21/12/2018 19:50

Hehe that's funny. But don't worry!!

viques · 21/12/2018 19:52

OMG OP, you do realise that now you and your builder are on such erm intimate terms you are going to have to let him use your toilet, even if it's for a number 2.

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MayFayner · 21/12/2018 19:52

This happened to an ex-colleague of mine except the person was a client who was just reaching behind my colleague’s head to take a key from a hook Grin

I once accidentally kissed (on the cheek) another child’s father at a children’s party- it was absentminded but then so awkward as I had never met him before. It wasn’t TOO bad until I panicked and tried to style it out by going for two kisses. He is French... oh god it still Blush Blush Blush all these years later

ScienceIsTruth · 21/12/2018 19:55

Thanks for the words of encouragement, and the other embarrassing stories. It really helps!

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LadyRenoir · 21/12/2018 19:56

Don;t worry. It's got nothing to to with Aspergers either. Last month we went to a restaurant for a burger, and at the end the waiter came to pick up the dishes, he reached out and my DP thought the dude wanted to shake his hand, so although he thought it was super weird, he stretched his out too and shook his hand. The waiter looked a bit like wtf?
I thought it was hilarious.

SongforSal · 21/12/2018 19:59

Oh I'm cringing for you!

A few years ago I was in shop with DP, we were Christmas shopping for the DCs and I was eyeing up a couple of very large, expensive glass snow globes that I would have loved for the kids. Saw DP across the shop pausing over them to. I walked up behind him and grabbed his arse, and said i would love 2 of them. He nearly fell over in shock. It wasn't my DP. He was walking behind me, I expect wondering what the fuck I was doing.

Bringbackthestrioes · 21/12/2018 20:03

HCP, it was only after I gave the patient-single older man, after we had discussed how they are alone all over Christmas, a hug and kiss and wished them a merry Christmas, that I realised they were just leaning forwards-not to hug me-but were just wanting to open the door.
I’m still cringing,

Skyatdaw · 21/12/2018 20:05
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cakedup · 21/12/2018 20:05

I've lost count the amount of times I've waved or said hello to people who were not saying hello to or waving at me.

When I moved into my current place a few years ago, the decorator was still finishing off a few jobs while I was unpacking. He went out for lunch but sneaked back in and I had no idea he was back in my flat. I was singing at the top of my voice and also farted loudly before realising he was standing a few feet away.

Don't worry, the workman probably just thought you were a lovely (over) friendly type, what with the bonus. Rather you than some of the arses he has probably had to work for!

halfwitpicker · 21/12/2018 20:10

Not that bad

73kittycat73 · 21/12/2018 20:12

I was singing at the top of my voice and also farted loudly before realising he was standing a few feet away.

OMG! Xmas Grin That make me laugh, sorry.

Lovemusic33 · 21/12/2018 20:13

🤣🤣 I have done this too, I kissed my boss on the cheek once which was awkward. I struggle reading body language too and seem to often get it wrong.

Solo · 21/12/2018 20:14

I've done the same...............

With a Catholic Priest! Blush. He was cool about it and went with it and when I see him now, I always greet him with a hug.

XingMing · 21/12/2018 20:14

I'd be embarrassed, but wouldn't worry about consequences.

Chickoletta · 21/12/2018 20:21

I once kissed my friend's very uptight dad at a party as I thought he was leaning in to kiss me goodbye. He was actually reaching round me for his drink. This was 20 years ago and I still haven't lived it down amongst my friends.

Be bright and breezy next time you see the workman and then you'll never have to see him again.

MiddlingMum · 21/12/2018 20:50

I walked up to someone in the supermarket today, as they were facing the salad shelves. I gave them a big hug and said "Hi Andy, how are you?" in a very enthusiastic way as I haven't seen him for ages.

It wasn't Andy.

Redcrayonisthebest · 21/12/2018 21:35

Oh op I did the exact same thing at my ds' birthday party, awkward hug with a mum who was leaving. What I did then Xmas Blush was hug most of the other leaving parents too..... to try and make it look like I always hug random people who are leaving a room. Lol they're still talking to me, it's all good Xmas Grin

mooftoon · 21/12/2018 22:55

This reminds me of the time my boss leaned towards me and I misread it and kissed him on the cheek. I was mortified!

FrankieChips · 21/12/2018 22:59

I’ve done something similar. At a gig and met a really old friend. We chatted a bit and then he leant in and I thought he was kissing me goodbye on the cheek so I kissed him on the cheek but he was just leaning over to scratch his leg. Awful. I still cringe now!

ScienceIsTruth · 22/12/2018 00:34

So glad it's not just me, but feel embarrassed enough for us all!

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heidipi · 22/12/2018 01:00

A few months ago I was walking along when a car horn beeped and I saw my DC's (adorable, male) reception teacher waving enthusiastically. I waved back, equally enthusiastically, then realised he was waving at my DC, who I had completely forgotten was with me... Blush

BettyBooJustDoinTheDoo · 22/12/2018 01:07

This happened in an episode of Friends, Rachel Went for a job interview and her potential new boss opened the door, she thought he was leaning in for a kiss....... the situation escalated to ridiculous levels where in the end she inadvertently went to shake his hand and touched his bits by mistake, it so it could have been a lot worse OP!

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