I've felt so let down by my sister particularly this last year! She's always been a bit flakey in our relationship. There is a 9 year difference which hasn't helped but since she's met her latest partner who she's been with now for 8 years, she's seemed to push me out even more. We used to see each other every Xmas maybe not xmas day but usually Boxing Day or the day after. It would give me chance to see my niece and my dad when he was alive (mum died 18 years ago), but then one year she just didn't seem interested in seeing us and now doesn't see us at all. She moved house about 3 years ago and I've never been invited around, don't you think that's weird, I was constantly around the other house.
This year I got married, I was so upset she didn't come to the wedding or even be interested in it. I basically got married with no family there. My niece now in her 20's doesn't bother either. I have just been getting in with my own life, it does get easier but now xmas is coming it's thrown up all sorts of emotions again , why has she just tossed me aside? Why doesn't she want to know us anymore, why didn't she come to my wedding or wish me luck!
If I ever ask her these questions she just says I'm being over emotional or making a big thing out of nothing. I know her controlling parter has a lot to do with it!
What do I do do I send her a xmas present or say enough is enough and just walk away?